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thishashappened

29 / M / Gay / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:34pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Hi there, creative type here... love theater, and generally analyzing everything too much. But also love to just relax with a bottle of wine and play scrabble. I have played piano since I was 7, and it's a huge passion of mine. A proper balance of being low key and enjoying an exciting social life is key.

I'm also an INTJ, if you know what that means and care, extra points...
What I’m doing with my life
Pursuing writing musical theater while having a steady day job in television programming. Combining responsibility with an urge to be wildly creative, isn't that everyone's struggle? Hashtag NewYorkCity.
I’m really good at
My friends say I'm a great listener. I can analyze and talk about anything.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TED talks!

Books - nonfiction, biographies, often. Quiet (Susan Cain), Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (Mindy Kaling), Bossypants, anything Malcolm Gladwell, The Season (William Goldman), Lord of the Flies, Act One (Moss Hart)

Movies - American Beauty, Bullets over Broadway, Take THis Waltz, documentaries

Shows - A Little Night Music, Company, anything Sondheim, etc etc

Music - musical theater/theatre, Ed Sheeran, Jason Mraz, Sara Bareilles, standards, also guilty of Top 40 pop indulgences
The six things I could never do without
[piano] Keyboard.
Chicken.
The internet.
One-on-one dinners with close friends.
Stimulation (intellectual and otherwise).
Dan Savage.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything, too much, probably. It's my biggest downfall, yet I don't know who I'd be if I didn't constantly want to know and learn more about something.

People and their relationships to each other, philosophizing, analyzing. And then how to parlay all of that intel into storytelling, to share with others in a compelling way.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably out with friends or seeing a show. I prefer house parties to bars, but I find myself out at bars with friends often enough that it's not an anomaly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Not sure what the OkCupidverse wants to know... but ask me anything and I'm an open book.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
You've got the whole package. Most of all, I'd really love for you to be interesting, challenging, and extremely passionate about something (if not many things!).