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34 Warwick, RI Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 15
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Thai (Okay), Khmer (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm coming back to RI after a stint in NYC. I like my states little.

Quick soundbites about me:
-I'm hopeful.
-Ambitious, but humble (probably one of the top 3, if not top, most humble human beings you'll ever meet)
-Witty, sarcastic, and smart
-Kind and genuine
-I've got rhythm.
-I'm full of surprises.

If I were a ninja turtle, I'd be a cross between Rapael and Donatello.

I'm Thai, Cambodian & Chinese American. I have no qualms about pimping my exoticism when it's helpful.

True story: As a younger man, I lived in Thailand as a Buddhist monk. The long term celebacy wasn't going to work out for me, but the simplicity of that life often beckons me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
- Generally moving in a forward direction; a combination of will and inertia.

- professional nonprofit do-gooder. I've done public policy and community development, and now working in education.

- 1st time dog owner. I got a puppy (Boston Terrier mix) this summer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1. Second impressions.
2. Cooking in needlessly complicated ways.
3. Figuring things out and fixing things.
4. Capoeira aka dodging kicks to the head aka Dance Fighting.
5. Listing things.
6. Moving between serene and absurd.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Eyes, butt?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food: I hate bean sprouts with a passion; otherwise, yes please.

Books: The Tipping Point, The Things They Carried, The Catcher in the Rye, The Giver, This is How You Lose Her, Gone Girl

Movies: Life is Beautiful, Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon, High Fidelity, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Once, The Shawshank Redemption, Boyhood

TV: Heroes (season 1), Prison Break (Season 1), Punky Brewster (Season 2)...chances are, if everyone is talking about whatever show is the greatest, I've watched it in a binge session. It's unlikely you'll find me special because of this.


Bill Withers, Florence and the Machine, The Swell Season, Stevie Wonder, Post Modern Electronic Gypsy Pop.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
2. Even numbers
4. Short cuts
6. Gummi Bears
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Time travel
- The perfect heist and breaking out of prison should said heist not go well (see favorite movies/tv above).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I might be in NYC, or RI, or somewhere in between.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not the strongest swimmer.

I've almost gotten into a fight with a Buddhist monk. (He started it)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You'd like to help me train my pup.
-You like smart guys who can fix stuff.