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thisnextime

33 M Warwick, RI

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:55pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Thai (Okay), Khmer (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Coming back to RI after a stint in NYC.
I'm a good guy.
I've got wit, charm, warmth and humility in spades (with a dash of sarcasm)
I've got rhythm.
I'm full of surprises.

I'm Thai, Cambodian & Chinese. This has worked out well for me.

BTW - I think OKC's assessment of my personality is way off base, and I'd prefer to not answer enough questions to try to get it right. Finding out for yourself, in person, should be much more exciting anyways.

If I were a ninja turtle, I'd be a cross between Rapael and Donatello.

In lots of ways, I'm as special as they come. In other ways, I'm a dude, for better or worse.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
- Generally moving in a forward direction. A combination of will and inertia.

- I work in education, giving school leaders and teachers some tools to do what they're doing even better.

- I'm always working on better parenting in general, and fatherhood specifically. The bar is set high, and there aren't enough great models out there.

I just became a 1st time dog owner. Got a puppy (Boston Terrier mix) in July, so hanging out with him.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1. Second impressions.
2. Figuring things out and fixing things. Sometimes I break things to figure out how to fix them.
3. Being really good with techy/geek things without being socially awkward. Please don't underestimate how hard this is.
4. Cooking.
5. Being a smart ass
6. Massages and kissing.
7. Listing things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Eyes, butt?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Food: Food

Books: The Tipping Point, The Things They Carried, The Catcher in the Rye, The Giver, This is How You Lose Her.

Movies: Life is Beautiful, Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Once, The Shawshank Redemption (every man should have this as a favorite?)

TV: Heroes (season 1), Prison Break (Season 1), Punky Brewster (Season 2)...chances are, if everyone is talking about whatever show is the greatest, I've watched it in a binge session. It's unlikely you'll find me special because of this.

Music:

Some staples when I'm driving long distances are: Bill Withers, Florence and the Machine, The Swell Season, Stevie Wonder
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I have simple needs.

1. Knowing that there are people in this world who are worth loving, who can share it with me, and who can receive from me.
2. Hearing my 5yr old laugh. It's a specific sound that elicits general joy.
3. Seeing my 11yr old be an amazing big brother.
4. Gummi Bears
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Time travel
- The perfect heist and breaking out of prison should said heist not go well (see favorite movies/tv above).
- Whether or not I know enough about important things (my job, auto-repair, feminism, economics...)
- When I'll get around to learning how to: build musical instruments or furniture, skateboard for real.
- Why it's hard to find community in a city of 8 million people
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depending on the week, I might be a single dad, or I might just be single.

I might be in NYC, or RI, or somewhere in between.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an introvert that's good at pretending otherwise.

I'm not the strongest swimmer.

I've almost gotten into a fight with a Buddhist monk. (He started it)

Internet dating hurts my soul a bit.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You're curious.
-You're on Okc to find what you didn't find at the bar.
-You'd like to help me train my pup.
-You need something fixed.