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thistle02

32 F Northville, MI

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:00pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Mostly I just like meeting people, hearing their stories, and having crazy misadventures. I love movies, reading, museums, history, art, traveling, and those kinds of road trips where you just sort of drive down a road to see what's there and discover something weird and hilarious.

I'm good at finding humor in just about any situation and like people who appreciate the bizarre.

Other than that, I like honest people. Not exactly in the "I'm blunt, deal with it" way, but the types of people who aren't afraid to be their strange, vulnerable selves from time to time and recognize that truth is important and should be respected.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working part-time in a used bookstore, a lot of which I really like. I love talking about books and bring way too many home every day. I wish more people would read something other than romance novels, but oh well.

I also work p/t at a library, which is good for now. We'll see where I go from here....I'm sort of in an in-between life thing right now, trying to figure out the next step.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hmmm....writing long emails, I guess. Haha. I'm not sure how good I am at writing exactly, but I enjoy it. I also am okay at photography. And people have told me I'm a good friend, which is probably my highest goal, so I really hope that's true.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm pretty shy at first, but then once relaxed, my quirks start to come out.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A) This is a long list, but a few favorites:
The Lone Ranger and Tonto Fistfight in Heaven, (pretty much anything by Sherman Alexie), Shutterbabe, The Alchemist, A Prisoner's Wife, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, The Catcher in the Rye, The Night Thoreau Spent in Jail, Inherit the Wind, White Oleander.

B) This list may be even longer; again, a few favorites:
Braveheart, Far and Away, (basically anything Scots/Irish), Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, A Hard Day's Night, I Heart Huckabees, Smoke Signals, Kill Bill Vol.1&2, The Lion in Winter, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, The Goonies, The Princess Bride, Cinema Paradiso.
Everything from artsy/foreign films to 3D blockbuster stuff. Usually the last movie I saw is "the best thing ever."

C) The Beatles, John Lennon, Jason Mraz (from back in the day), Melissa Ferrick, Mic Christopher, Glen Hansard, Bob Dylan, The Grateful Dead, Bright Eyes, Van Morrison, weird soundtracks like to Smoke Signals, or some musicals, and basically any kind of Celtic music.

D) TV Shows (not a category on here, but I'm adding it):
Girls, Homeland, Game of Thrones, True Blood, Boardwalk Empire, Arrested Development, Buffy the Vampire Slayer.

D) I like trying new foods, especially from other countries. And the classics are always good too....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Freedom (but not in the mindless post-9/11 way-more as a general, abstract idea. My clan motto is "Pro Libertate," so that's more what I mean)......Friends......something to write with and on.....green and water (being landlocked makes me nervous).....animals.....and my sense of humor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next career move, my friends, and how to get back to the British Isles. And a lot of random things-I'm one of those people you see laughing to themselves on the street.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
These days probably curling up on the couch with a movie or good show. Working where I do, I don't usually have very traditional weekends. One of the things I'm looking to change soon.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Mannequins freak me out and I can't stand magicians. They think they're so smart (magicians, I mean. Though mannequins probably think they're smart too.)
You should message me if
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You like meeting people and having a laugh. Or you have some crazy idea of a place we can go or something to do. I love new experiences.

There are a few things I'm not really into. I certainly wouldn't just rule someone out at face-value on any of these, but they're things I would have to really work to overcome. I just want to be honest here.

-You're a smoker. I have personal reasons on this one, but also, I actually have a physical reaction to cigarette smoke these days. Almost like an allergy: my sinuses clog up, my throat gets tight, etc. even when I'm just smelling it on someone's clothes. If you're not at least very much on your way and committed to quitting, it might be very hard for me to spend time with you.

-You have kids. Ok, I like kids. Generally. Sometimes they make me nervous, but mostly they're cool and interesting. But I also believe that the most important things kids need beyond knowing they're loved are routine and stability. I respect their right to have that and a normal childhood. I'm not sure where I fit in on that at this time. I'd have to be VERY serious about someone before I went there.

-You're religious. I'm not. I grew up religious and will never go that route again. It's not to say I don't have spirituality in my life, but I find most of the organized end of it over-simplified and annoying. This isn't going to change.

-You're a gun person. I'm not. I will never have a gun in my home. Period.

-You don't know the difference between your and you're, there, their, and they're, and to, two, and too. Maybe that's me being too picky, but come on. I'm nothing if not a writer and a reader...to me it's a matter of respect.

I don't mean to be offensive here, just as open as I can be.

Also, like I said before, I can be kinda shy (trying to get better about this), so I probably won't be the first to send a message. So don't be hurt if I look at your profile but don't say anything! And if you read all of this, wow, you're amazing!