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41 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–44
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:06pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
English (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Married and in an open relationship. Currently searching for a unicorn. This site sucks for unicorns.
What I’m doing with my life
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Developing my competitive app OkUnicorn.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Eating an entire bag of chips/cookies/candy in one sitting. Also pretty good at being a smartass.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Read this while humming to the tune of "favorite things" by Julie Andrews in Sound of Music...LCD Soundsystem (and now anything James Murphy), fire pits in the backyard, the xx (and Jamie xx as a DJ), live music, anything Thom Yorke, a quality IPA or Belgian (hello Pliny and La Chouffe), looking you in the eyes, Four Tet (DJ), bikes, training for a bike race, girls that bike, girls that mountain bike, crash and then get me to care for them, bike crashing myself and laying quietly with the pain before I cry like a bitch, telling you endless times about how I crashed my car off a bridge once, crashing *your* parents' wedding anniversary party drunk on rye manhattans, bitters, bitterness (not really but it sounded cool with bitters), Caribou (DJ), kale (the food, not the DJ silly), Daphni (DJ aka Caribou), Pixies, Royal Tenenbaums (and anything Wes Anderson for that matter), Adidas Superstar shoes, Dirty Projectors (the band, not actual dirty projectors - that's just gross that your mind would go there), sleeping in the tea house (burning man project that now sits on the deck), almond milk, Andrew Bird, chocolate with sea salt, chocolate with peanut butter, hell chocolate with just about anything, the little strip of skin you love to expose between your super tall boots (or socks) and skirt, being emotionally open and available for friends, Jeff Tweedy, loving that I'm in the best shape of my life at 41, Sam Beam, Matthew Dear, gawking at beautiful brunettes (it's a mom thing, as Freud would say), Phantogram (huge crush and yup, she's brunette), ink on your body, building shit for Burning Man, Elliott Smith when I'm feeling sad and want to really feel it, Modeselektor, art, architecture, design, being embarrassed there's no books on my list but working on that.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Aside from all the shit I mentioned above? That's asking a lot, but okay: Reese's cups, Strava, Margaret Kilgallen, LCD Soundsystem (damn, I already said that one, but it's worth mentioning twice), a black felt tip pen, wit.