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thought_crime

39 / M / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:32pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on space camp
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Music is my primary passion in life. When I was younger, my friends and I would imagine soundtracks playing to the films of our lives when there wasn't already a song to match a scene. This was back before music was virtually ubiquitous - I suppose today you could liveblog your life with playlists. So now there's music for driving, music for working, music for working out, music for making out, music for busting out the cardboard and spinning on your head. Clubs, concerts, festivals, parties, dancing, drums, disco. An inordinate amount of time spent on iTunes and Beatport, DJing, planning the next big night out.

Huge hockey fan. Love it. Nothing better in the world of sports in my opinion: fast, graceful, aggressive, electric; a perfect mix of skill and physicality, of speed and grit, of finesse and power. I've never taken anyone to a live game that didn't come out with at least having had a great time and an appreciation.

Skiing. I love the snow. Born and raised in California, would rather be on the slopes than in the surf any day. Especially Tahoe: mountainside by day, craps table-side by night, hot tubs anytime. I'm not a big gambler, but craps is a lot of fun once you get to learn the game. Poker can be cool too, with friends or at a low-key table in Vegas, but to seriously play takes a level of skill I stopped pretending I have.

Reading is a great way to be OK with not doing anything else. Fiction, non-fiction, doesn't matter. Short stories to epics, essays to volumes. I tend to switch back between a novel and something from which I can learn, depending on the mental energy I'm willing to expend. Don't really have time for TV or cable - Netflix is oppressive enough. I like the idea of sharing samples of what's in our respective queues, just to get an idea of what the other person likes, because they're not usually favorites, which are easy enough to list off and identify ourselves by, but those films and shows we think might become favorites in the future. Like people maybe?
What I’m doing with my life
Ok, this might mean work, but that doesn't matter so much. I'm a consultant/project manager in the tech industry. Not nearly as exciting as fireman or brain surgeon, or at least not as instantly recognizable. I also DJ quite a bit and am getting into music production. Planning a trip to Europe in the fall, likely Iceland and Belgium.

Just moved into a new house! Really excited about that, or at least about buying stuff. Not so much about putting stuff together. It's so great to have space, though.
I’m really good at
DJing, dancing, skiing, racquetball, soccer, hacky-sack, conversation (especially about music and film and science and hockey), reading, writing, spelling, Words with Friends, useless information, killing time, making sense, mixing metaphors, giving (here you go), receiving (gimme).
The first things people usually notice about me
Well-dressed, well-groomed, well-spoken, fit, tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite book: 1984 Favorite authors: Irvine Welsh and Hunter S. Thompson Favorite movie: THX-1138 (although the more I watch Inland Empire...) Favorite directors: Stanley Kubrick and David Lynch

Reading now: 'Thinking, Fast and Slow' by Daniel Kahneman and 'World War Z' by Max Brooks.

Just Watched: Upstream Color - I think Carruth is a genius. Also, can't stop watching Bill Burr standup and Archer.

Music...probably best just to ask. But favorites include Aphex Twin, Underworld, Cocteau Twins, Saint Etienne, Groove Armada, Cut Copy, New Order.
The six things I could never do without
My turntables
Kings hockey
Weekends
Dreams
Things that make beautiful sounds
Films that challenge my emotions
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Getting the most out of my time on this planet, leaving a legacy, finding the balance between being fulfilled and fulfilling others' needs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Heading out on a weekend trip, going out dancing, mixing music at home, watching movies with friends, having dinner somewhere I've never been before, bonfire at the beach, unwinding.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I need white noise to sleep. Darkness, great. Silence - nothing is ever really silent. Every little random noise keeps me awake, especially if it repeats. It's not a fear thing, just an annoying thing.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You want to know more, you want to talk about just about anything, something I said made you smile or maybe just feel slightly curious.