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thoughtsfreeflo

30 M Jersey City, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:22pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Okay), Farsi (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Explorer. Artist. Illustrator. Designer. Educator. Student. Storyteller.
Optimist. Patient. Humorous. Kind. Playful. Generous. Chivalrous.
Snappy Dresser. Handsome, Yessir. Skilled Kesser. Rhyme Mess..er.
Adventure. Dogs. Kids. Peanut butter. Film. Comics. Travel. Nature.
Anglophile. Master of Space (working on my Master of Time).
Love. Knowledge. Expression. Happiness.
Dinosaurs.

*I live in NJ, but only a short PATH ride from NYC, and I am in pretty often. Like right now. There I am walking down the street. You didn't see me..? Ahh, I am a master of disguise, you'll have to be quicker next time... Get over the NJ bias, NY-ers. You can get to my apartment quicker from Manhattan than you can many parts of Brooklyn.
What I’m doing with my life
Growing up, I had a devout love of the arts, and when it came to college there was really no other choice but to follow that passion through. After working primarily as a graphic designer following graduation, I delved back into academia to pursue a Masters in Art Education at...

...

Wait... this isn't a job interview...? Ohh...

Well then, what I'm doing with my life is simple:
I'm in the pursuit of happiness, and striving to leave the world a
better place.

...but if you must know, I am a high school art teacher at a north NJ school. I absolutely love it.
Reviews from my students include:
"You're a good teacher."
"It's been a pleasure working with you, sir."
"Why do you have to leave?!" *falls to the floor*
"The consensus is that you're a boss."
and
"I got you donuts."
(All of which are direct quotes!)

I pursue my own art/illustration/design in my down time. I used to work full-time as a graphic designer but found my ethics got in the way of making money I could live off of in that field.

I love to travel, and lived in London for three years.
I've been to a total of 18 states, 16 countries, 3 continents, and one British territory.
I’m really good at
Making art. Teaching kids and adults.
Visual/spatial thinking – I'm the go-to guy for packing U-Hauls.
Making friends, getting people involved, and bringing them together.
Making people laugh, lightening a mood, being silly.
Imitating that actor, singer, politician, or friend's voice.
Building and fixing things.
Solving puzzles.
Buying/making the perfect gift.

I'm a patient person (hence the teaching, I suppose), which I credit to my Grandfather who, when I was little, would sit and build Lego with me on Christmas Day while all the adults were talking and having drinks and whatnot. Gramps was also a teacher. Who'd a thunk?

Basically, I'm a handsome bundle of fun. The only people that don't like me are a**holes. And even the a-holes acquiesce that I'm pretty great. I'm also more modest than I may be coming off.. ha.
The first things people usually notice about me
Even my optometrist tells me my blue eyes are striking.
Sly smirk, how I have every color of the beard rainbow.

Affability, & sense of humor.

People here have been telling me some of my answers to the Questions were humorous... check 'em out!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a culture buff, but not a snob. I'm always open to new stuff, and like to take my time getting to know a record or a book.

Here's a sampling...

on the shelf...
Primarily fiction, short fiction, art books, comics/graphic novels, and various non-fiction/science that sound fascinating but I never finish. Plus education and psychology books.
One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Where the Wild Things Are, anything by Ed Brubaker & Sean Phillips, Daytripper, Asterios Polyp

on the screen...
Cool Hand Luke, Three Days of the Condor, Annie Hall, The Thing, Back to the Future, Eternal Sunshine, Rushmore, Big Lebowski, Beasts of the Southern Wild, Groundhog Day, Minority Report
I love the fantastical and adventurous... between Indiana Jones and Jurassic Park I wanted to be an archaeologist/paleontologist for many years. Still do.

on the dvr...
I tend toward comedies or interesting dramas... so pretty much stuff that airs on Thursdays and Sundays.
Pete & Pete, Arrested Development, Venture Bros, Community, Parks and Rec, Game of Thrones, Louie, Breaking Bad, The Americans.
True Detective is blowing me away right now...

from the speakers...
British rock, well-written lyrics, heart-wrenching blues and soul, haunting instrumentals, a great melody, a funky bass line, clever rhymes wrapped around a rhythm, sprawling soundscapes, intricate arrangements, live jazz, chunky and fuzzy/ballsy riffs.. these are what pull me in. Also, I'm a sucker for female vocalists.
Blur, Rolling Stones, St. Vincent, Yo La Tengo, Belle & Sebastian, Swell Season, Arcade Fire, Andrew Bird, Bowie, Radiohead... to name a small few...
I also listen to the radio, WFMU, WBGO, and WNYC (NPR), especially RadioLab.

on the walls...
leonardo, anselm kiefer, lucian freud, saul bass, james jean, lucas samaras, julie mehretu, sandy skoglund
chuck jones, alex toth.
illustrations. prints. handmade books. surrealist narratives and abstractions – recently enjoyed seeing the magritte exhibition at MoMA.

in me belly...
I'll pretty much try anything, but usually a balance of what's good for my body & what tastes good.

I do not like bacon. This seems to be a point of contention. discuss.
The six things I could never do without
Art in all its forms.
A balance of socialization and alone time.
Drawing/writing implement.
Imagination.
Water. (for drinking, rain, bodies of... I'm a fish.)
Nature. (Ah HA! That pretty much includes everything! Loophole!)
+1: Sandwich. mmm sandwich...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Perception and perspective, and how a character or individual would behave in a given situation.

How many careers I can try and fit into one lifetime.

How to become an astronaut or archaeologist or tennis pro without having to pay for more school/training.

The next adventure.

Art lesson plans.

Puppies. On tricycles.
On a typical Friday night I am
Depends. I'm pretty much up for anything... A sampling:

Live music of The Ettes at the Mercury Lounge. Seeing The Wrestler at Sunshine Cinema. Grabbing a drink & bite with friends at Wildwood BBQ. NYC adventuring to the MoMA. Watching my brother/his friends do stand-up at the Comedy Cellar. Going for a hike in Hacklebarney Park. On a trip somewhere to Upstate NY, Philly, VT, all-continent and international. Arting around by myself or with friends. Or just unwinding at home with a good book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
On occasion – my shirt may match my underwear,
and yet my socks may not match each other.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
... you have a sense of humor. this is a must. (whether you are funny, silly, goofy/awkward, or actually smile/laugh at things).
... you have something more to say than hi... conversation is good! I'm not putting in any effort if you didn't.
... you value intelligence.
... you have a love of the arts or are open to experiencing more.
... you aren't into playing games (in dating. board games are cool).
... you want to take advantage of my MoMA membership.

Bonus Points:
(*... you won a piece of the 'crag' on Nickelodeon GUTS.*)
(*... you are musical - vocalist for double bonus points.*)
(*... you have an English/Irish/Scottish/Welsh accent.*)
*These last three, of course, are optional...*