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39 • Waterloo, Ontario, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 24–54
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 24
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Mostly anything
- Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
- Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from high school
- Open relationship
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
I'm bisexual, submissive, into a lot of kink, or just plain simple friendship. I've been in very loving multipartner relationships; I'm not a fan of serial monogamy, but I do root for polyfidelity; I'm also into sapiosexuality, which in layman's terms it means I'm attracted to people with great big brains... I dig nerds.
Very much into roleplaying games, computer games, movies and live theatre.
Nota bene: 'poly' does not mean 'easy'. I actually have rules.
1) I will not help you cheat on your spouse. If they know about what's going on, it's not cheating. (In fact, we may hit it off.)
2) I'm making the courtesy of making a public spectacle of myself online, do the same so I can at least look you over. Understand that neither of us may not like what we see offline, and live and let live.
3) Never feed or tease the straight people.
Conversely, the poly part doesn't mean I'm immediately out to have sex with you. (That's usually what people presume, or so I presume.) Currently I'm in a poly relationship right now.
I am charming, witty, and neurotic
EDIT: this is old news. I do have a job elsewhere that pays more money, and all debt is gone. Colour me happy, I can now buy more crap.
EDIT AGAIN: I bought a car, and sometime soon the bank will agree that it's mine. Hello debt, I seemed to have missed you.
Conversely, I'm also very good at saying something entirely inappropriate at just the right moment.
Apparently I'm also very good at cooking.
Apparently my eyes run a close second.
And my incredibly diverse vocabulary hides just how stupid I really am.
Movies: I generally go for movies that are quite dark and show insight into the nature of human conscience in the face of adversity; either that or vampire movies, because I find them pretty thrilling. Favourites include Das Experiment, Underworld, Romero, Closer, Strange Days, Braveheart, Heat, Interview with the Vampire, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, and many, many others.
Music: I often joke that I like any music as long as it's angry, but that's not completely true. I like NIN, Korn, VNV Nation (saw them in concert a few years ago! kickass show!!), Perfect Circle, Assemblage 23, Rob Zombie, Metallica... but I also am enamoured of the Big Band era, as well as the 60's. I also dig karaoke. I love performing.
Foods: The act of breaking bread with one another is the very foundation of community. It doesn't matter if it's a sumptuous meal that took all day over the stove, slow-cooker stew that took 20 minutes to throw together, or pizza that took five minutes to phone in an order. So yeah... I like food.
Come on, like the rest of my profile isn't revealing.
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