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40 Jamaica Plain, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:27am
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Swedish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I have been described by friends as "solid" and "generous". I love music and I frequently try new experiences with my groups of friends. I went to burning man on 2013, so I guess a third of you stopped reading right about now. I have a great sense of humor but it has to be the right time and place.

I am not looking for a relationship, since I am prioritizing some personal developments. (I suppose that of the remaining two thirds still reading about two thirds just decided to move on and find the one who will want to start a family, good luck to you, that is a most admirable goal!) Keep track of those numbers cause I will quiz you at the end!

However I am not opposed to discovering someone that I would feel like I want to start a relationship with, and I specifically do *not* want a partner just for sex. (there goes about a third of whoever was still reading!) I require a personal connection with anyone I could be intimate with. I am just not on a schedule at this particular moment in my life. This disclaimer is intended to save us both any confusion and time.

For the time being what I am looking for is people to go on fun dates, meet their friends, for them to meet my friends, and the possibility that we might feel compelled to pursue something more.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Connecting with the people I love, getting better at living. Slowing things down for a bit. Sometimes stepping out of my comfort zone. Other times I pull people into my comfort zone and make them comfortable.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have many practical skills: From replacing car breaks to building a computer from parts.

I have been known to play a couple of instruments, DJ, VJ, and has had created a couple of interactive art installations.

I can bake, cook and salsa/swing/blues dance as well. But you have to ask nicely. Hitting me with a kitchen spatula covered in searing hot bacon fat does not count, as much as I love bacon!

Recently I got trained to use the laser cutter at Danger Awesome.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My accent, build, eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am always watching new shows and discovering new music that my friends get me into. I am often building setlists for DJ gigs so a single description of what I listen to would not reveal how often it changes and grows.

A few mentions: adventure time, rick and morty, bee and puppycat, archer. Off the air. I also watch normal stuff so I can pretend to be normal and relate to regular everyday people, like that guy who works behind the counter at the pizza place across the street, which is one of my favorite activities ever!

Pleasurekraft, cashmere cat, zero 7, boards of Canada, Sluggabed, Teebs, com truise, krampfhaft

Lately getting into classic old timey jazz and blues, cause why not. (see above, on acting normal!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my studio
pillows of various shapes
a decent pair of headphones
waffle iron
Really good sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
don't know what's "typical"
You should message me if
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You have a well defined sense of self. You are happy independently. You value self-growth. You don't live up to anybody's standards but your own. You have a sense of humor. You are capable of resolving differences in a relationship in a direct and healthy way. (that took out a few more of the ones still reading...)

You also have not lied on your profile, Lies are not cool, M'kay?? A lie can be in the form of an uncanny camera angle, unlikely to be sustainable during an actual, in-person date. have pictures that show what you look like (I do!), are attractive (and feel attractive) and fit within my age bracket. (That just eliminated most of the ones of you still reading. Of the remaining few still reading, now there's like two of you left reading this profile at this point... keep going PLEASE, you are my only hope!)

You consider yourself intelligent, open minded, fun, maybe even enlightened. Although often those who are truly enlightened don't really know it.

Preferably you don't believe in astrology, or else I am going to have a hard time taking you seriously (although I will try!)..... is anybody still reading?

One last thing, you must live within the same area code. Distance isn't helpful.