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40 Jamaica Plain, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:48pm
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Swedish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
NOTE: I have been asked why this profile was written in the third person, I don't know if it is a "thing" on OKC, or what kind of first impression it elicits, but I suppose I would offer an answer here:

OKC is painfully difficult to actually get dates out of (let alone good dates!), when compared to the alternative of checking my facebook events, going to any given event at random, and starting a conversation with a woman I find attractive. The latter is usually effective in giving me the opportunity to meet someone, learn about their interests (usually already many shared interests due to the overlap in friends) and then later I can decide if it is someone I want to know better and maybe pursue. There are a lot of "maybes" still with analog dating as it is. But getting to see someone face to face is pretty easy.

On OKC the story is different: To even get to that point where you have established contact and can start to screen for match, you find a time when you are in a social mood, then write to 5-10 different random women, then receive responses from a tiny fraction (sometimes 1 or 2), then among those you start to screen for profile honesty, likelihood of match, etc, further lowering the effective response rate. In other words, OKC almost needs to be a science to even come close to touching the act of stepping out of the house on a random Friday night. And that is JUST to establish an in person meeting. I really want it NOT to be a game of numbers, but, how can it *not* be?

So I will try anything (truthful!) since this feels more like an experiment than a purpose driven exercise.

Take this example: I tried a shirtless picture on my profile, even after reading dozens of times that women hate that (and I can see why, I have browsed for male profiles and I know the type that posts a bathroom selfie!)

Then one day I put a shirtless picture, a blatant, shameless selfie, only with some twists: the hexagon mirrors. Clearly not a great picture by any stretch. And I am not quite ripped either. But guess what happened? profile views and visitors jumped by a factor of 4. The jury is still out whether that's a good thing, but it goes to show that conventional wisdom doesn't always apply.

Now here goes my third person profile:
He runs regularly and eats well. He is inquisitive and addicted to learning. His best jokes are the unintentional ones.

He believes that you get back from life what you put in, that the secret to happiness is gratitude and connection with loved ones.

Recently he has sought adventure and new experiences including a visit to burning man last year, where he helped bring a large art installation consisting of a projection mapped party dome. It was awesome.

He has been told he is extremely well rounded for a software/electrical engineer (he's not sure if that's a compliment!?)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Loving it
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
He has many practical skills: From replacing car breaks to building a computer from parts.

He has been known to play a couple of instruments, DJ, VJ, and has had created a couple of interactive art installations.

He can bake, cook and salsa/swing/blues dance as well.

Recently he got trained to use the laser cutter at Danger Awesome.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
He holds eye contact and has good posture, smiles often and opens doors (even for your male friends).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
He things this is best discussed in person.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
his studio
pillows of various shapes
a decent pair of headphones
waffle iron
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
right now
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
don't know what's "typical"
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a well defined sense of self. You are happy independently. You value self-growth. You don't live up to anybody's standards but your own. You have a sense of humor. You are capable of resolving differences in a relationship in a direct and healthy way. He is willing to give no less than what he expects in return.