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39 M Jamaica Plain, MA

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Last Online
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Hispanic / Latin
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Swedish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I run regularly and eat well to stay in shape. I am very curious and addicted to learning.

I play a couple of instruments and I love music.

The last few years of my life I have sought adventure and new experiences including a visit to burning man last year, where I helped bring a large art installation.

Being raised traditionally in Puerto Rico this has been a big departure for me late in life that challenged my way of thinking. I'd describe myself as a late bloomer.

All my experiences have taught me about myself and helped define what I appreciate in a partner.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work as an engineer in Cambridge on audio products and I am very happy with my work.

I occasionally participate on artistic projects and in the last few months transitioned back to producing music, hoping to make this a somewhat bigger area of my life.

I am a father and I am helping raise two boys. If this suddenly changes your attraction towards me, or if you are looking for me to help conceive children and support them, unfortunately you are not the person I am looking for but thank you for reading this far. I realize that my response rate on this site will be lower after saying this. So be it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, affection, cooking, empathizing, self awareness, believing in my sense of purpose. Also all kinds of handy work type stuff, computers, etc.

I also know how to make delicious flan :)

I am also super humble!
The first things people usually notice about me
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my eyes and smile. shoulders
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Tipping Point, Stumbling upon Happiness, The Stuff of Thought by Pinker, Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, Quantum Psychology (RAW) White Light. I read a lot of non-fiction about various subjects, physics, health, math, nutrition, psychology, and material related to technical stuff for work or hobby. Lately I have been mostly teaching myself a lot about psychology and human behavior.

Not an avid TV viewer, but some TV shows like Breaking Bad, Dexter, True Blood, Mad Men, Battlestar Galactica. Mr Show, Peep Show, UCB, Always Sunny, some Tim & Eric, Adventure Time. The Century of the self, Samsara, Cosmos, other documentaries. Sometimes I get exposed to TV shows and movies I wouldn't really consider thanks to my housemates.

Amon Tobin, Modeselektor, Jobim, Deuter, Blockhead, Shigeto, Mouse on Mars, Air, Djunya, Lindstrøm, Todd Terje, Tiger & Woods, Bill Withers, Slugabed, Average White Band, Radiohead, Tears for Fears, New Order, The Prodigy, Green Day, Rush, Daft Punk (early 2000's!) Hugo Montenegro, Alan Hawkshaw, Soulwax, Telefon Tel Aviv, Flying Lotus, Air, Little People, Boards of Canada, Massive Attack, James Blake, Synkro, Mord Fustang, Bonobo, El Ten Eleven, Debussy, Mozart, Bach, Brahms, Phoenix, The Album Leaf, James Taylor, Stevie Wonder, Earth Wind and Fire, Zero Seven, Justice, etc. Lately I have been exploring Nu-Disco and related sounds. I often play music, dim the lights and just sit and listen, or play random videos on vimeo with the sound off along with the music for fun and inspiration. Other times I listen and actively seek out different artists using youtube, or google play music, etc. I enjoy actively expanding the range of music I listen to.

Foods: I'll eat anything, but I minimize eating meat, especially beef, for no special reason. Among favorites: Sushi, Thai, Indian, anything breakfast. For my day to day I eat pretty conservatively, but I am much more adventurous when dining out.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the feeling that I did something good for my self (however small) each day.
really good music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be more in touch with the present moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Pretty random. Depends on what friends I get together with and what I'm in the mood for. I could be chilling in my apartment after dinner, or I could be drinking in central square with friends. I don't know what next Friday is going to be like.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
this question is BS. Nobody actually answers this honestly. There! I am calling it!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You have a well defined sense of self. You are happy independently. You value self-growth. You don't live up to anybody's standards but your own. You have a sense of humor. You are capable of resolving differences in a relationship in a direct and healthy way.