So, I guess as a woman, you have to ask yourself, “What is it that I am really looking for?”. Well for men, to be honest, they mostly only want one thing. Yet there are the ones who want to go far past that and touch your heart. To feel that which beats within you. To blend with your soul and know the real you. It is this passion that most men never experience. So, many women play it safe and chase the men interested only in the physical attraction, or the ones who treat them badly as that is what they are used to and not risk the emotional. After all, that is the normal relationship that most women feel comfortable with as it is “normal” with today’s men. So are you the one who plays it safe, or are you the one who wants the real thing?
I am a guy who is touch with his feelings, and a true romantic dreamer. The real deal. The type who holds the door and is very attentive. I also write gothic romance novels and poetry. My dream is to one day be a published author with a book signing. However my main dream is to find my soulmate. I am also a candle-holic, haha. Yes, I adore candles and often write by candlelight. I cook and chess is my favorite sport. It is a sport, right? International music thrills me and I love foreign politics and the bizarre facts and news of the world. Am I rich? No. Am I a stuffed shirt? No again. What I am is a man filled with a passion to find this woman who calls to my heart. Not just any woman, but the one with the keys to the hidden chambers of my heart. I wonder if it might be you? Do you dare see? Well, the one who does hold the keys will unlock treasures stored for her alone. Not a day will pass that she will not know she is loved, and excitement? Haha, the guy on the bike doesn’t know the meaning of the word.
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For all you women (and yes I have met a few like this) who had a ex husband or prior boyfriend who ignored you emotionally and would not hold hands or give gifts on Valentines day, do not be afraid! I actually had one who told me, "Gosh, I do not know how to react to this! I never had anyone who would hold my hand and treat me so well!" Well, I scared her away. She was not confortable with a guy who could have adored her if given the chance. She was beautiful and had such a sweet and lovely heart. Now she is with a guy who is "normal" who treats her like she is dirt but expects her to bring him his beer on cue and be there for him every night. Normal modern men. Well, even if you do not even message me, much less date me, do yourself a favor and break that cycle and let someone treat you with the respect you deserve. But do not take that man for granted and think less of him because he does so much for you. He does it not because he is begging for you to love him, but he does it because he loves you. I do not see why some women would leave that for a man who would treat them like they have always been treated. For once in your life break that cycle and just relax and enjoy being loved! Also, NEVER ever put up with verbal or physical abuse! If he does that while dating you, it will only be worse when you get married. You deserve better than that. Respect yourself first and demand to be treated the way you deserve.