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31 Santa Ana, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:59pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Vietnamese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Looking for my partner in crime aka my Disney Princess ( Jasmine! or Selina Kyle/Rose Tyler/River Song... or combination of)!

And new friends are cool too! (ie Geek Culture)
Write to me! I'll try to respond to every message so go for it! :)
Though I'm quite married to my work nowadays, so if our chat fizzles, forgive me in advance.

INFJ Personality type best describes me.

Grew up in Upstate New York and went to College in Southern California. Just got my career off the ground again after a life hiccup -- enjoying the single life but open to finding the right girl.

Me: Nerdy/geek, huge heart and open book. I'm an artsy/music inclined type. Coffee shops, Comic Conventions (I Cosplay) and bookstores are my bliss. Not much of a party animal, was a club promoter for 2 years (Deep City Productions) -- and weekend after weekend of clubs burned me out for one life-time. Though I wouldn't hesitate to go out for a night of dancing with my significant other. I'm looking for someone to dress up/cosplay with and go to Conventions and events and just geek out together.

Its hard for me to meet people cause I'm loathe the bar/club scene, my work schedule is like 8-8pm daily (with a long commute both ways) and I work afterwards at home and weekends I'm catching up on chores and errands...

I think I'm attracted to pretty geek girls... just intellectually stimulating and fun to talk to and be with... so big plus if you're a geek like me! :D

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Constantly improving my circumstances. Maturing and planning more prosperity for the future.

I'm a CEO & Co-founder of my own start-up company and work FT time as a 3D Artist at an prestigious Architectural Firm (God I'm Ted Moesby). Hence why I'm on a dating site... don't have time to go out there and meet people :/
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh and having new surprises up my sleeve constantly.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall for an Asian guy?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Book - Count of Monte Cristo, Frederick Pohl's Gateway, Bid Time Return, The Love Letter.

Movies - Counte of Monte Cristo, Somewhere in time, Blade Runner, Serenity, Swingers, Mask of Zorro, Tron Legacy, Lord of the rings trilogy, Dark Knight Trilogy, Office Space, Drive, Being Elmo, Pursuit of Happyness, MARVEL Cinematic Universe (especially Guardians of The Galaxy), Star Trek 2 Wrath of Khan, Bruce Lee flicks, and so many more.

Shows - Fringe, Doctor Who (Whovian!), Torchwood, Sherlock, Battlestar Galactica, Star Trek(s), Firefly, Farscape, How I met your mother, Big Bang Theory, Being Human (UK), Farscape, The Walking Dead, Buffy - The Vampire Slayer, Angel, Game Of Thrones, Vikings, Comic Book Men, The Daily Show, Arrow, Scrubs.

Music - Depeche Mode, Daft Punk, alotta movie soundtracks and many more.

Video Game - MASS EFFECT. (Others: Dragon Age, Halo, Resident Evil, Street Fighter, Guild Wars 2, Ninja Gaiden, Shinobi, Elder Scrolls, Deus Ex etc)

Food - Banannas, Fish fingers and custard, Jelly Babies, Bananas, Jammie Dodgers, Pink Marshmellows, Souffles,
JAPANESE Ramen & Katsu Curry, Pho, Buffalo Wings, Fish fingers and custard, Dim sum, Gourmet burgers and pizzas, Cashew/Honey Roasted nuts, Honeydew Boba, Almond milk tea, Thai Tea...and many more. :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family/friends, movies,music, food, monogamous bdsm/kink and sleep.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work... and how to play to balance it all out. Oh yeah and a thing called the future.

Also why do people like/star me on here yet never follow through and actually write to me?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recuperating from the work week. Sharing a good meal with good people or catching up on side hobbies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a mild mannered reporter by day...?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're weird and like weird things...
You're a great conversation...
You know how to make a guy feel appreciated,
You aren't an immature girl, rather a woman who can hold her own and knows exactly what she wants in life and relationship... want to :)

You shouldn't message me if:
You "really" love Jesus.
You're a republican.
You're a tom boy (no offense, I like girly fashionista types).
You have a thing against LGBT people.