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62 M Jamesville, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 2
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Writer, professor of film, modest filmmaker. Three degrees; spelling counts. Recently single, twice. Attracted to dangerous curves & verdant lawns, the better to walk barefoot on. Father of two daughters living elsewhere. Biker late in life but better late than never. No tattoos, however, & irrationally prefer same in women. No problems with the law. Turned 60 last year but still hit the gym despite tkr a couple years back & associated aches & pains from old football injuries. Plates, reading glasses, Six two, 217.
What I’m doing with my life
Back to basics. I'm about to pay off & I feel better in tandem, although there may be some disagreement to that were it to go public. Specifically, I'm working on a script, waiting to hear if an agent's going to pick up my novel, teaching into the summer, out of Buffalo & back to Syracuse, thanks to SN.
I’m really good at
Studied wolf & was bitten once so on a full moon if I'm having any I'll have mine rare so one less dish to clean up. I mean it.

I listen well & hold up my end of the conversation unless it's going nowhere & I invite the other to join me outside in the sub-zero wind chill for a smoke. That works every time or just about every time.

I'm never the life of the party, but I rise to the chosen occasion (or bait) with a sharp & versatile wit. I've bartended & bounced in tough NH mill towns, traded innuendo with Virginia gentry & stories with ex-spies, writers, students, farriers for horse killers for hire, academics, killers, elite athletes, Indians, ultimate fighters, world sky-diving champions, J.D. Salinger, bikers, average white guys, average black guys, vets (I'm not), good old boys, most women, gay guys, bad guys, good guys. I get along but don't mingle or blend well unless on the job. I detest bathroom or sex humor but worse are the bottom line guys talking profit. But I love a good story - listening to one or telling it. My four writing-life mentors were Hans Feldman, Charles Gaines, Peter Taylor & James Dickey.

I love kids and animals & I really did study what being a wolf was like by being among them so I could write a wolf character properly, a wolf with the soul of a human being. Between dogs now after my Newf died quietly alone in his dreams a year ago & like a certain somebody I still grieve.

I can pen a sentence or two & drive standard when called upon.
The first things people usually notice about me
I wouldn't know. I'm sizing them up too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too many to list after all these years. For instance, loved Deliverance in college & eventually became close friends with Jim. Fond of rock & particularly Mark Knopfler, Michael Franks, ZZ Top, Led, Janis, JT, Stones, Who, & on. Ordinary well-cooked food's fine as long as it's tasty & there's enough for everyone at the table & scraps for the kitty in the Florida room.
The six things I could never do without
My hog.
A little shade on a warm day.
A few close friends, several of which go back centuries.
The rest are either unremarkable or unmentionable.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working on some piece of writing. Unless I'm otherwise engaged.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 50–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
If you can imagine the two of us together, belle et bete.