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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 27
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I just moved to the area and started a new job at a university until I find a permanent professor position somewhere. So I’m not exactly “settled”, but I’ve been saying that for years now and love waits for no man…or something like that. So here I am on the World Wide Web broadcasting a signal for a fun, intelligent, attractive woman who appreciates that the simple things are actually the finer things in life. One who’s skeptical and argumentative, but occasionally sweet, and is possibly equally comfortable being sweaty and dirty as she is dressed up for a nice night out. More than anything I’m looking for a woman who gets me, and I want to get her too. I’m talking about the sort of comfort level where you can just look at each other without talking and everything is just right with the world.

My work involves research in the outdoors and the conservation of wildlife, so I have a pretty strong environmental ethic. However, I don’t own a single piece of tie-dye clothing. I take a lot of enjoyment in my work and that’s where most of my time and energy goes these days. I used to be an avid outdoor athlete (lots of climbing, skiing, kayaking, etc.) but for the most part I’m in retirement due to the demands of my job. If that’s your thing, good on ya, but just know that it’s unlikely I’m your next adventure partner. I’ll enjoy hearing your stories though. I still try to stay in shape. I enjoy international travel and have had the good fortune to do so for my research (mostly Central America).
What I’m doing with my life
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Scientific research in wildlife ecology and evolutionary biology. If you don’t know what that is, I’m happy to explain it to you sometime if you’re interested. For a mental image, sometimes I’m in a laboratory with a white coat and goggles on, sometimes I’m in the rainforest traipsing around covered in mud, but mostly I’m sitting in front of a computer trying to learn some new program and banging my head against the desk. My work has a great balance of different challenges and I love it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I literally have no idea. I’m tall-ish. My grandfather taught me how to be charming and I think he did a pretty good job. Lots of people think I’m funny. I only say that because they tend to laugh at what I say, but I guess it’s possible they might be laughing at me. I’m also a good listener and I love good conversation. I ask people a lot of questions while I’m getting to know them, sometimes to the point of cross-examining them. If this makes you uncomfortable, just ask me questions right back.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love music and play a few different instruments, but I haven’t been feeling very inspired by anything I’m hearing these days. I keep coming back to The Black Keys. When I walk down the street “The Desperate Man” plays in the background. All-time favorites include: Ryan Adams, Wilco, Cake, Steve Earle, Colin Hay, Calexico, James McMurtry, Neil Young, Gillian Welch, blah, blah, blah. I love movies and probably see one a week. I also love going out to eat. I think most TV is garbage, but some of it I love! Current favorites include Archer, Louie, Breaking Bad, and I watch The Daily Show compulsively. You don’t want to know what I’m reading. All nonfiction and mostly technical scientific stuff.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
an internet connection (ok, but only if I'm in the wilderness),
intellectual stimulation,
intellectual escape,
serious discussion.

The contradictory nature of this list is not lost on me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My research. I totally get the whole “absent-minded professor” thing now. Seriously, I’ve zoned out and run red lights. Also, how there seems to be so few good people in politics. Why it’s so hard to make a good movies despite spending millions of dollars. Why I can’t embrace using one space after a period.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I’m in a new town and don’t really have much of a social life yet. Friday nights these days typically include making dinner and unwinding after a long week with some TV or God forbid…wait for it…video games. That’s right, I admitted it. I know, sexy right?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I’m afraid I might be boring. But who knows, maybe I’m just your kind of boring!
You should message me if
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You’re some combination of good looking, fit, smart, well-educated, or’re interested in lots of different things and like talking about them, like politics, the environment, art, philosophy, and all the other things in life worth knowing don’t object to occasionally wearing a think scientists are sexy and get hot hearing about esoteric research don’t hold it against someone if they use the Oxford comma.