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tiedupsissy69

67 / M / bisexual / Single

Houston, Texas

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of high school
Job
Other
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am downright weird, but very caring, and a hell of a nice guy.

My Self-Summary

I am an older gent who just happens to love crossdressing (especially lingerie) and bondage, and is looking for another to play with.

I'd truly love to find someone who's reaction to that would be "Cool!", instead of "OMG!!! What's WRONG with you?!!!" In short, someone who would enjoy it, and have fun with it, instead of merely"tolerating" it. (Hell is where you are "tolerated".) :(

I'm NOT into pain of any kind; I don't hurt other people and have no interest in being hurt.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now, mostly surviving.

I'm early retired from an IT job that went south (or more accurately, east, to Bangalore, India). I'm now working part-time, to supplement early-retirement Social Security, and just getting by.

I’m really good at

Solving problems, figuring things out (my current situation is a work in progress; probably my biggest challenge yet).

The first things people usually notice about me

Shy, retiring, friendly, a very nice guy.
(Little do they know :-)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Almost anything by F. Paul Wilson, Douglas Preston & Lincoln Child, Brian Freemantle, Stephen King, Robert A. Heinlein, etc. The entire Harry Potter series (one of the few series to NOT disappoint in the end).

Movies: 2001, Lone Star, Contact, Serenity, Yojimbo, Seven Samurai, The Host (Korean), Sin City, Kill Bill, District 9, too many others to even BEGIN naming. I am a movie nut.

Music: Classical (especially the Romantics, Stravinksy, Ravel, Debussy), movie soundtracks, some country & western, new age, electronic, Kodo, Vangelis, Tangerine Dream, Phillip Glass.

Food: Tex-Mex, Chinese, American, Italian.

The six things I could never do without

Some of my DVDs and videos (some are literally irreplaceable).
Books
Music
My car (in Houston a necessity)
The chance to occasionally actually play out some of my fantasies.
My computer (hell of a crutch, but it makes some many things available)

(Note: no particular order to that list.)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Just making my situation better.

I find part-time work actually more tiring than a regular full-time job, as the later usually has predictable hours while the part-time job's haours vary all over the place; making it difficult to plan anything ahead.

And also, someone with which to share my weird desires and to play with. :-)

On a typical Friday night I am

Recovering from the week, roaming the internet, seeing if there are any responses from dating sites.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have loved wearing women's clothing (especially lingerie) and also being tied up since I was 12. But I never shared that with anyone for a LOOOOONG time; too embarrassed and ashamed to admit that if I saw a picture of a girl all tied up, I wanted to be tied up EXACTLY like her (including what she was wearing, lipstick, etc.).

You should message me if

If you're as weird as I am, and would like to play.
If it goes anywhere, you wont regret it.
(If you're within 300 miles, I'd consider driving to meet you.)

Or, even if you just feel like chatting about common (or uncommon) interests. There ARE other things besides sex (I think; give me a moment. :-)
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