I’m a shy and introverted one at the outset, but playful, flirty and mischievous once I start feeling comfortable with someone.
I identify as andro/tomboi/genderqueer, but, like most other folks, there's a lot more going on. I’m frequently mistaken for a guy (especially in women’s restrooms), but I’m learning to be ok with this and own it.
I have a deep appreciation for queer femmes, especially very smart ones.
I have a new found love of French cuffs, cuff links and bronze collar stiffeners.
I'm beginning to learn Argentinian tango (lead to begin but ultimately switch) and thrilled there's such a vibrant queer tango community in the Bay Area.
I think intelligence, playfulness, integrity and emotional depth are all super sexy things.
I love the Greek islands (Cyclades especially), and hope to return to Greece sometime very soon.
I feel pretty fortunate to live in this beautiful state of California and try to take every opportunity to explore it; I'm always up for day and weekend trips up and down the coast, to Vichy mineral baths, Orr Hot Springs, hiking at Point Reyes, overnighting on Angel Island, or to a lighthouse, they are such evocative sites of desire for me. The physics/optics behind the original Fresnel lenses in lighthouses continue to amaze me. I can really geek out on this stuff.