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28 • Bensalem, PA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 22–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 10:07am
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body type
- Strictly other
- Other, but not too serious about it
- Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Open relationship
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), French (Okay)
I'm polyamorous and I live with my boyfriend of 5 years (Phwop.) I've been dating JokerMyID for a year and a half and Jonvalue for 4 months. I am very liberal with my boundaries and don't maintain many agreements outside of completely honest communication and safety related rules. I'm very hesitant to date anyone without a basic understanding of this concept, and I would prefer if potential partners have had some experience in a stable polyamorous relationship.
I have very little time for one-on-one dates (see previous paragraph) but if you want to hang out at an event I could meet you and once I meet you, my calendar might open up ;) Read below for what I'm up to and message me for current event info.
I write, play keys and sing in a folk/pop girl band:
As my day (and sometimes evening) job, I work as a nurse in a residential facility for people with special needs. I've been there 5 years and I absolutely love it.
I throw myself into new hobbies with a passion that seems to amaze the people around me. I have a fresh obsession every 6 months or so and I tend to hang on to bits of each even after choosing a novel focus. Some past interests that have since been incorporated into daily life include holistic health/traditional food, ethical economics, positive psychology, polyamory and sex-positivity.
I'm really bad at
Spelling, definitions, lying, paying attention, pop culture references, staying the same, loyalty, getting out of bed, proper nouns, monotony, trivia, being on time, puns, packing, using new technology, saying no, throwing anything away, reading fiction, finishing projects, buying things, keeping houseplants, cleaning up after myself, word association games.
Don't bother reading the rest of this section, it barely matters.
Music: Really love the folky stuff with a ton of instruments and chorus singing. I listen to a lot of local music and XPN. You can never go wrong with classic rock or old school hip hop. Some faves are: Tom Petty, Pasty Cline, Cake, Feist, Queen, Regina Spektor, Death Cab for Cutie, 50 Cent, The Postal Service, Tegan & Sara, Rilo Kiley, The Eagles, The Bee Team, The Doors, Vampire Weekend, CCR, Meatloaf, Bright Eyes, Wu Tang, Rolling Stones, Jenny Lewis, Johnny Cash, Journey, Ben Folds, She and Him, Freelance Whales, Givers, The Lumineers, Avett Brothers, Head and the Heart, Brandi Carlile.
TV: We don't have cable. Shows I have or will probably watch all of: LOST, Arrested Development, Firefly, Dexter, Supernatural, The Guild, Orange is the New Black, Derek
Movies: We have Netflix. I love political/social documentaries, and I'm a sucker for indie romantic comedies. Old faves include: The Princess Bride, Natural Born Killers, Harold and Maude, Love Actually, Old School, Finding Nemo, The Other Sister, Aladdin, The Lion King, Pocahontas.
I barely read books anymore. I sometimes read non-fiction that's pertinent to my lifestyle. I read a lot of stuff online. I like poetry and short stories. Childhood favorites: The Stranger, A Happy Death, Free to be You and Me, My Side of the Mountain, Six of One, The Girl With the Silver Eyes.
Cooking and/or eating really good food
Drinking, smoking and/or enjoying other mind altering substances
Playing and/or watching live music (and dancing)
Just plain old communicating
Having sexy times
You are an open and honest person who isn't clingy, codependent, high maintenance, moody, dramatic, insecure, passive aggressive or in any way a downer or troublemaker.
You want to come to an event or show.
You are non-monogamous.
You're a musician.
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