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27 F Bensalem, PA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:45am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am a creature of habit who is infatuated with changing. I am content within my comfort zone, but I greatly enjoy novelty. I am a hopeful pessimist. I'm a practical idealist. I am opinionated yet open minded. I am indulgent but not a consumer. I'm a highly logical absurdist. I'm often envious and rarely jealous. I'm overly trusting yet perpetually skeptical. I believe life should be a sensory experience. I am obsessed with gaining perspective.

I am open to any and all date ideas. If you plan it, I will go.

I'm polyamorous and I live with my boyfriend of 4 years. We are very liberal with our boundaries and don't maintain many agreements outside of completely honest communication and safety related rules. I'm very hesitant to date anyone without a basic understanding of this concept, and I would prefer if potential partners have had some experience in a stable polyamorous relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
I throw myself into new hobbies with a passion that seems to amaze the people around me. Most recent one: Music. If you have any knowledge in this field please contact me!

Some past interests that have since been incorporated into daily life: Holistic health/traditional food, ethical economics, positive psychology, polyamory, sex-positivity.

As my day (and sometimes evening) job, I work in a residential facility for people with special needs. Yes, I am very patient, but what really gets me through my day is the ability to find humor in just about anything and keep my cool in intense situations.
I’m really good at
Communicating, procrastinating, thinking on my toes, diagnosing, winning, being uncomfortable, enjoying myself, memorizing words, driving in the snow, being vulnerable, finding answers, singing, thrifting and trash picking, getting off-task, being a real person, analyzing, giving advice, giving head, being responsible, making people feel secure, dancing, remaining unfazed, politely telling it like it is, learning, planning, dating, multitasking, following directions, changing, cooking

I'm really bad at
Spelling, definitions, lying, getting out of bed, proper nouns, losing, monotony, trivia, being on time, packing, using new technology, throwing anything away, reading fiction, finishing projects, buying things, keeping houseplants, cleaning up after myself
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm prettier in person. I'm not goth. It's something about the way I move.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Reading Materials: I mostly read non-fiction. Anything about psychology or social sciences will usually win when I make my library selection. A long bibliography is a plus. Also: Classic short stories, Poetry, Research studies, Religious texts, Foodie Blogs. Childhood favorites: The Stranger, A Happy Death, Free to be You and Me, My Side of the Mountain, Six of One, The Girl With the Silver Eyes.
Currently Reading: Sex at Dawn

Movies: We have Netflix. I love political/social documentaries, and I'm a sucker for indie romantic comedies. Old faves include: The Princess Bride, Natural Born Killers, Harold and Maude, Love Actually, Old School, Finding Nemo, The Other Sister, Aladdin, The Lion King, Pocahontas.
Last Seen: The Giant Mechanical Man (I recommend!)

Music: Really love the folky stuff with a ton of instruments and chorus singing. You can never go wrong with classic rock. I also enjoy country (really just the male singers,) alternative rock, oldies and indie stuff. Some faves are: Tom Petty, Pasty Cline, Cake, Feist, Queen, Regina Spektor, Death Cab for Cutie, The Postal Service, Tegan & Sara, Rilo Kiley, The Eagles, The Bee Team, The Doors, Vampire Weekend, CCR, Meatloaf, Bright Eyes, Rolling Stones, Jenny Lewis, Johnny Cash, Journey, Ben Folds, She and Him, Freelance Whales, Givers, The Lumineers, Avett Brothers, Head and the Heart, Brandi Carlile.
Currently jamming to: Rilo Kiley

Food: Of all these "favorite" sections, this is by far the most important to me. I. Love. Food. I love eating food, I love cooking food, I love talking about food. I love thinking about food. I think eating together is essential to human development and I think it's sad how infrequently Americans actually sit down and slowly enjoy a meal together. I'm a Weston A. Price Foundation chapter leader. I cook traditional foods, I eat a lot of full-fat dairy, meat, sauerkraut and other home ferments, bone broth, local produce, and eggs. Currently obsessed with: Chocolate everything

TV: We don't have cable. Shows I have or will probably watch all of: LOST, Arrested Development, Firefly, Dexter, Supernatural, Orange is the New Black, The Guild.
Currently Watching: True Detective
The six things I could never do without
There's not much I need: Other people, nature, vices, senses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Food and recipes, Health, People and society, Freedom, Words, Compassion, What I'm grateful for, Phwop, Plans, Memories, Empathy, Home improvement projects, Self improvement projects, Work, Art, What I want to do, What I should do, Sensations, Money, Perfection, Responsibilities, Plans and my schedule, Words, Compersion, Music/sounds/lyrics, Sex, God, Absurdity, Love, Forgiveness, Understanding, Relationships, Honesty, Awareness, Happiness, The present moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
I work every other weekend, so Fridays are a lot like every other night about half the time. The things I do for entertainment always involve other people and include but are not limited to:
Cooking and/or eating really good food
Drinking, smoking and/or enjoying other mind altering substances
Playing and/or watching live music (and dancing)
Playing games
Just plain old communicating
Having sexy times
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will be late unless you stress the importance of being on time. If you say anything along the lines of "Oh it's no rush..." I will be very, very late.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are an open and honest person who isn't clingy, codependent, high maintenance, moody, dramatic, insecure, passive aggressive or in any way a downer or troublemaker.

You are non-monogamous and/or sex-positive.

You want to be invited to parties at my house.