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28 Bensalem, PA Woman, Cis Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:35am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Other, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a creature of habit who is infatuated with changing. I am content within my comfort zone, but I greatly enjoy novelty. I am opinionated yet open minded. I am indulgent but not a consumer. I'm a highly logical absurdist, a hopeful realist, and a practical idealist. I'm often envious and rarely jealous. I'm overly trusting yet perpetually skeptical. I have high hopes and low expectations. I believe life should be a sensory experience. I am obsessed with gaining perspective.

I'm polyamorous and I live with my boyfriend of 5.5 years (Phwop) and my boyfriend of 6 months (Jonvalue.) I've also been dating JokerMyID for a year and a half. I am very liberal with my boundaries and don't maintain many agreements outside of completely honest communication and safety related rules. I'm very hesitant to date anyone without a basic understanding of this concept, and I would prefer if potential partners have had some experience in a stable polyamorous relationship.

I have very little time for one-on-one dates (see previous paragraph) but if you want to hang out at an event I could meet you and once I meet you, my calendar might open up ;) Read below for what I'm up to and message me for current event info.
What I’m doing with my life
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I run a social group for nonmonogamous folks in/around Philly called Polydelphia. We have online discussion and local events. Feel free to message me to learn more/get in on the fun :)

I write, play keys and sing in a folk/pop girl band:

As my day (and sometimes evening) job, I work as a nurse in a residential facility for people with special needs. I've been there 5 years and I absolutely love it.

I throw myself into new hobbies with a passion that seems to amaze the people around me. I have a fresh obsession every 6 months or so and I tend to hang on to bits of each even after choosing a novel focus. Some past interests that have since been incorporated into daily life include holistic health/traditional food, ethical economics, positive psychology, polyamory and sex-positivity.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communicating, procrastinating, thinking on my toes, diagnosing, winning, being uncomfortable, enjoying myself, adjusting quickly to changing circumstances, memorizing words, pretending to pay attention, driving in the snow, socializing, being vulnerable, finding answers, singing, thrifting and trash picking, getting off-task, being a real person, analyzing, giving advice, giving head, being responsible, rolling joints, making people feel secure, dancing, remaining unfazed, politely telling it like it is, learning, planning, dating, multitasking, following directions, changing, cooking

I'm really bad at
Spelling, definitions, lying, paying attention, pop culture references, staying the same, loyalty, getting out of bed, proper nouns, monotony, trivia, being on time, puns, packing, using new technology, saying no, throwing anything away, reading fiction, finishing projects, buying things, keeping houseplants, cleaning up after myself, word association games.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm friendly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I. Love. Food. I love eating food, I love cooking food, I love talking about food. I love thinking about food. I think eating together is essential to human development and I think it's sad how infrequently Americans actually sit down and slowly enjoy a meal together. I'll eat anything but I mostly stick to unprocessed stuff. This means I can cook.

Don't bother reading the rest of this section, it barely matters.

Music: Really love the folky stuff with a ton of instruments and chorus singing. I listen to a lot of local music and XPN. You can never go wrong with classic rock or old school hip hop. Some faves are: Tom Petty, Pasty Cline, Cake, Feist, Queen, Regina Spektor, Death Cab for Cutie, 50 Cent, The Postal Service, Tegan & Sara, Rilo Kiley, The Eagles, The Bee Team, The Doors, Vampire Weekend, CCR, Meatloaf, Bright Eyes, Wu Tang, Rolling Stones, Jenny Lewis, Johnny Cash, Journey, Ben Folds, She and Him, Freelance Whales, Givers, The Lumineers, Avett Brothers, Head and the Heart, Brandi Carlile.

TV: We don't have cable. Shows I have or will probably watch all of: LOST, Arrested Development, Firefly, Dexter, Supernatural, The Guild, Orange is the New Black, Derek

Movies: We have Netflix. I love political/social documentaries, and I'm a sucker for indie romantic comedies. Old faves include: The Princess Bride, Natural Born Killers, Harold and Maude, Love Actually, Old School, Finding Nemo, The Other Sister, Aladdin, The Lion King, Pocahontas.

I barely read books anymore. I sometimes read non-fiction that's pertinent to my lifestyle. I read a lot of stuff online. I like poetry and short stories. Childhood favorites: The Stranger, A Happy Death, Free to be You and Me, My Side of the Mountain, Six of One, The Girl With the Silver Eyes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Other people, nature, vices, senses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Food and recipes, Health, People and society, Freedom, Words, Compassion, What I'm grateful for, Plans, Memories, Empathy, Home improvement projects, Self improvement projects, Work, Art, What I want to do, What I should do, Sensations, Money, Perfection, Responsibilities, Plans and my schedule, Words, Compersion, Music/sounds/lyrics, Sex, God, Absurdity, Love, Forgiveness, Understanding, Relationships, Honesty, Awareness, Happiness, The present moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I work every other weekend, so Fridays are a lot like every other night about half the time. The things I do for entertainment always involve other people and include but are not limited to:
Cooking and/or eating really good food
Drinking, smoking and/or enjoying other mind altering substances
Playing and/or watching live music (and dancing)
Playing games
Just plain old communicating
Having sexy times
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I will be late unless you stress the importance of being on time. If you say anything along the lines of "Oh it's no rush..." I will be very, very late.
You should message me if
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You are nice, genuine, open minded, bright, pleasant, happy, secure, communicative, down, interesting.
You are an open and honest person who isn't clingy, codependent, high maintenance, moody, dramatic, insecure, passive aggressive or in any way a downer or troublemaker.
You want to come to an event or show.
You are non-monogamous.
You're a musician.