I try to accept people as they are.
Right now, I am interested in finding someone who has time to spend with me and interest in doing so. If something comes of it, that would be great, but if not, I am ok letting go. Life is too short.
Also I am a bit of introvert. That seems to be a disadvantage for many of the things I'd like to accomplish. I'm trying to change that, but it isn't easy. Any extroverts out there, let me know how you do it!