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45 • Durham, NC • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 35–48
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Dec 20, 2012
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- Other, but not too serious about it
- Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
- Dropped out of masters program
- Science / Engineering
- Seeing Someone
- Has dogs and likes cats
- English (Okay)
I try to accept people as they are.
Right now, I am interested in finding someone who has time to spend with me and interest in doing so. If something comes of it, that would be great, but if not, I am ok letting go. Life is too short.
Also I am a bit of introvert. That seems to be a disadvantage for many of the things I'd like to accomplish. I'm trying to change that, but it isn't easy. Any extroverts out there, let me know how you do it!
I just moved to an apartment in downtown Durham. It is a great location for walking or biking and I am looking forward to having friends over for dinners and parties.
I like techno and indie music. Right now I am mostly listening to jungle.
Stuff I liked once and still makes it into my playlist:
Sonic Youth, Beat Happening, Stereolab, Saint Etienne, New Order, Galaxie 500, Cranes.
Food: Indian, Mediterranean. Anything with flavor.
I like magic shows.
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