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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 13
Black, Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 11" (1.81m)
Body Type
Buddhism and laughing about it
Space camp
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Thai (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
broad strokes:
even tempered, emotionally well balanced. Employed.
looking for a Leia to my Han Solo
fine print:
Born and raised in San Francisco, and yet have had adventures all over the world. I value love, honesty, and communication. With a great career over the last 22 years, while I will evolve and grow, I doubt I will change careers anytime soon. I've been doing what I love, what I am passionate about, for many years. I find not everyone can say that.
I travel for work and for pleasure, and I am good at it. Tropical beaches in foreign locations are my preferred destinations, although I often find myself working in polar opposite scenery.
My skill set is interesting to say the least.
I am an avid reader and researcher about many things.
blessed be the interwebs
let's see, for those that like labels:
Gemini Aries Scorpio. Year of the Wood Tiger.
i like creature comforts but they are not required. I've roughed it and lived in The Lap. some camping may be required, but so are spa days.
I am a firm believer that we can all too often stand in the way of our happiness. I am learning to get out of my own way.
fear is the mind killer and all that.
regrets, well I've had a few...
I am a kind of Buddhist
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
working in the production entertainment biz. I am many things, but i have been a Head Carpenter on Broadway, mainstage head rigger for Outsidelands, and on more conventions than I care to mention. I work with my mind and my body, often under intense situations, sometimes dangerous.
and what else is there to do with life? i hang out with family and friends when i can arrange it. i'm enjoying life and all the ups and downs that come with it. practicing how to balance pragmatism with romanticism...while trying to avoid isms all together.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
kissing, dancing, fixing problems, finding solutions, recognizing patterns. I give amazing hugs and incredible massages. Friends often call me to talk about their problems, so I guess I listen well...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This is where u tell me? Probably my smile? Glasses? My handsome yet unique looks? 😍....Everyone has an opinion and a persecutive. I love who I am and what I am striving to achieve.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm a fan of scifi and fantasy, with tangents into fiction, mystery, and classical lit. I grew up with AD&D, StarWars, and Nintendo. My comic book collection is only over shadowed by my book collection. I still like to play video games to unwind, but I am shifting time to hit the gym more often now.
As for music I tend to listen to mash ups and hip hop most, but I was raised on jazz and motown. Punk and metal in my teen years. house and breakbeat in my 20's. I love to dance. Different music works for different moods.
Do u really need a list of favorite things? See if any names pop out at you:

Frank Sinatra, Diamond Age, the long run, shabumi, logans run, bladerunner, guardians of the flame, circle jerks, black flag, Robert Jordan, the forever war, kick ass, Fringe, Metallica, faith no more, jay z, frank miller, dune (whole series), snow crash, diamond age, the professional, the 5th element, armor, the vampire lestat, the art of war (the book not the movie), sin city, biggie, the earthsea trilogy, ceelo, digital underground, galactic, dj mei-lwun, dj andy caldwell, soulstice, the long run, the story of sleeping beauty by anne rice, top chef, archer, true romance, heat, bad santa, nightmare before christmas, barrington levy, midnight, Battlestar Galactica...

if it's good music, let's hear it. if it's a good read, let's share it, and if it's a good movie, i probably already saw it.
i am a meat eater, that said i don't really care for sloppy bad food. junk food only while on road trips,
i like cajun, tex, mex, clean cali, raw, sushi, bbq, indian< not so much ethiopian>, but love itallian, russian, german, thai, if it's good or spicy for a reason...lay it on me
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
rules to break
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ways I can get on top of it.
The world I mean.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
still me
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
character and style mean more to me than a percentage, so I don't pay attention to the numbers too much. I have many diverse people in my life, if I kept company only with people who thought like me, how could I grow as a human being? I respect a difference of opinion, esp if you can back yours up with facts and truth. or a really good story. I have fallen for a bullshit artist on occasion.
ps:I totally want to fuck you, I just won't try right away because, conditioning.
pss:I totally want to fuck with you, just waiting for a sign you can take it
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You actually want to meet someone. You don't mind my nerdy/geeky tendencies, you love them. You want a man, not a boy, who balances the light with the dark. You are looking for a man that will engage you. Take part in the life you care to share. late nite movies, blues bars, tropical beaches and laughter make you want to dance, laugh, live drama free