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My self-summary
broad strokes:
even tempered, emotionally well balanced. Employed.
looking for a Leia to my Han Solo
fine print:
Born and raised in San Francisco, and yet have had adventures all over the world. I value love, honesty, and communication. I've been doing what I love, what I am passionate about, for many years. I find not everyone can say that.
I travel for work and for pleasure, and I am good at it. Tropical beaches in foreign locations are my preferred destinations, although I often find myself working in polar opposite scenery.
My skill set is interesting to say the least.
I am an avid reader and researcher about many things.
blessed be the interwebs
let's see, for those that like labels:
Gemini Aries Scorpio. Year of the Wood Tiger.
i like creature comforts but they are not required. I've roughed it and lived in The Lap. some camping may be required, but so are spa days.
I am a firm believer that we can all too often stand in the way of our happiness. I am learning to get out of my own way.
fear is the mind killer and all that.
regrets, well I've had a few...
I am a kind of Buddhist
I love tattoos, but am ink free
What I’m doing with my life
working in the production entertainment biz. I am many things, but i have been a Head Carpenter on Broadway, mainstage head rigger for Outsidelands, and on more conventions than I care to mention. I work with my mind and my body, often under intense situations, sometimes dangerous.
and what else is there to do with life? i hang out with family and friends when i can arrange it. i'm enjoying life and all the ups and downs that come with it. practicing how to balance pragmatism with romanticism...while trying to avoid isms all together.
I’m really good at
kissing, dancing, fixing problems, finding solutions, recognizing patterns. I give amazing hugs and incredible massages. Friends often call me to talk about their problems, so I guess I listen well...
The first things people usually notice about me
This is where u tell me? Probably my smile? Glasses? My handsome yet unique looks? 😍....Everyone has an opinion and a persecutive. I love who I am and what I am striving to achieve.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a fan of scifi and fantasy, with tangents into fiction, mystery, and classical lit. I grew up with AD&D, StarWars, and Nintendo.
As for music I tend to listen to mash ups and hip hop most, but I was raised on jazz and motown. Punk and metal in my teen years. house and breakbeat in my 20's. I love to dance. Different music works for different moods.
Do u really need a list of favorite things? See if any tittles pop out at you:

Frank Sinatra, Diamond Age, the long run, shabumi, logans run, bladerunner, guardians of the flame, circle jerks, black flag, Robert Jordan, the forever war, kick ass, Fringe, Metallica, faith no more, jay z, frank miller, dune (whole series), snow crash, diamond age, the professional, the 5th element, armor, the vampire lestat, the art of war (the book not the movie), sin city, biggie, the earthsea trilogy, ceelo, digital underground, galactic, dj mei-lwun, dj andy caldwell, soulstice, the long run, the story of sleeping beauty by anne rice, top chef, archer, true romance, heat, bad santa, nightmare before christmas, barrington levy, midnight, Battlestar Galactica...

if it's good music, let's hear it. if it's a good read, let's share it, and if it's a good movie, i probably already saw it.
i am a meat eater, that said i don't really care for sloppy bad food. junk food only while on road trips,
i like cajun, tex, mex, clean cali, raw, sushi, bbq, indian< not so much ethiopian>, but love itallian, russian, german, thai, if it's good or spicy for a reason...lay it on me
The six things I could never do without
rules to break
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Ways I can get on top of it.
The world I mean.
On a typical Friday night I am
still me
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
character and style mean more to me than a percentage, so I don't pay attention to the numbers too much.
You should message me if
You actually want to meet someone. You don't mind my nerdy/geeky tendencies, you love them. You want a man, not a boy, who balances the light with the dark. You are looking for a man that will engage you. Take part in the life you care to share. late nite movies, blues bars, tropical beaches and laughter make you want to dance, laugh, live drama free