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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–99
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 28
White, Other
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and very serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Two-year college
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So, who am i? many things i suppose just like everyone else. I'm laid back and not a take charge kind of person. I'd rather leave that responsibility to somebody else but I'll take charge and lead if necessary without a second thought.

I'm responsible yet I'll never grow up. I'm a thinker more than a doer, a good thing and a bad thing. I definitely have an odd sense of humor. I don't know how to be anything other than I am and I'm always trying to be a better man. Do i always succeed? no. Do i always fail? no. I'm unique, but who isn't? :) I'm a pessimist a realist and an optimist. I'm more of a learner and a listener than a talker or a leader. I try to have an open mind but sometimes can't help myself being closed minded (you gotta stand your ground on certain things after all.) I'd like to think i'm fairly logical and unbiased but who really is? I like ellipses... and exclamation marks!

Also, on the myers-briggs (or is it meyers?) I'm an isfj/istj, and I think that's pretty accurate
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Stayin busy, productive and learning and improving as I go along. That kind of good sounding generic stuff :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and giving insight, cooking an amazing breakfast sandwich (they are dagwood tested and garfield approved) and breakfast pizza, macaroni and cheese, making the most amazing yet not necessarily very healthy caesar salad, being handy and helpful and a toys r us kid. (Working overnight stock there was pretty fun)

But in all seriousness, most of my creativity probably comes from words. I was a poet in Jr and high school and I like to think of myself as a wordsmith. I have a strong affinity for double entendres
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books: wheel of time series, death gate cycles, calvin and hobbes :) the purpose driven life, no way out but through. My favorite book is daring greatly by brené brown. If you've never heard of her look up her TED talks on youtube NOW!

(why are you still reading this and not watching them!?)

movies: donnie darko, interstate 60, spanglish, click, the neverending story, labyrinth, slc punk, the jacket, reign over me, kevin smith movies, jet li movies. Really, i like your off-the-wall quirky movies be they comedy or drama but prefer the comedies
shows: don't really watch tv at all but like watching stuff in the science channel/(certain types of) documentaries
music: i don't think i can list bands, there's too many. punk, pop punk, country, motown, ambient, industrial
relient k, mxpx, slick shoes, dogwood, hawk nelson, sanctus reel, ghotti hook, the oc supertones, five iron frenzy, left out, noggin toboggan, collective soul, thousand foot krutch, fm static, philmore, johnny respect, ace troubleshooter, jars of clay, alan jackson, ryan farish
food: pizza, breakfast
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
God, meaning, humor, technology, cats and cat videos or at least lolcats, cheese, my car, and why not a seventh? Learning. (About stuff that interests me anyway :) sometimes i really really get into "sponge" periods) and you know what? I'm gonna add books and music too. They're pretty important things too oh and electricity too, i suppose i'd be out of a job/skill without it and it's pretty handy and convenient too
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how i tend to think a lot. meaning, purpose, intent, reality.. I 'm really interested in quantum mechanics and whenever i get to hear a podcast, watch a tv special or movie/documentary on it, i'm always there! Also, anything on emotions/psychology or just generally why people act the way they do i love that stuff! I love being able to get inside peoples' heads, maybe cuz mine seems a little boring to me sometimes :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I've been working 6 days a week so far this summer while trying not to be a workaholic.

Currently, Fridays nights are just me trying to unwind from the work week with a few beers and also getting ready for work the next day.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
hm, wich one? why not several? i'm a nerd but a construction worker, spiders scare the shit outta me, i seriously freakin love cheese, i'm a gamer, i'm a christian with a tattoo that cusses and drinks. (OMG!)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a nice girl interested in being in committed relationships or heck even just a friend to talk to. If you're looking for casual dating, getting to know someone in the hopes of leading towards an ltr. Also, if you're someone who's spiritual, not necessarily religious and having a relationship with God means something to you