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38 • Seattle, WA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 26–48
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Yesterday – 3:29pm
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Very often
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Science / Engineering
- Open relationship
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes cats
- English (Fluently), German (Poorly)
I think I've done okay on these.
Some more specific and probably more pertinent information:
* If I'm outside of an area roughly penned in by Capitol Hill, Pioneer Square, Ballard, and Wallingford I am probably out of the state, or on my way.
* In 2014 I was out of Seattle about one night in every five, up from one in six in 2013, and back to the level of 2012.
The last five years I've been travelling heavily, some work, some fun, and usually a healthy mix between the two. I ran out of pages in my passport last fall, six months before it was set to expire.
I took this past summer off to write what I am calling my memoirs, a series of short stories about some of the weirder chapters of my life. It's about forty thousand words and is now with a professional editor.
I tell stories well, both because I've had a pretty interesting life and because I know how to keep a listener engaged.
Over the last few years, I've been memorizing T.S. Eliot's "The Waste Land". I think it's one of the most important things written in the twentieth century. I've got about 20% memorized; "II A game of Chess" and "III The Fire Sermon" are tricky.
I am unapologetically into dark scene music; goth/industrial/electro. During the summer, I hit the German music festivals. It's fascinating to see a band that can only get a few hundred people in Seattle play to a crowd of ten thousand people. That said, I have no trouble separating the rest of my life from the club/concert scene. I'll wear a VNV Nation hoodie to work, but not my full "going out" regalia.
I am not food-motivated. I harbor a low-grade mistrust of foodies. Much like jazz musicians, I suspect most chefs are doing novel things to amuse themselves more than their putative audience. It's an overstatement to say that I'm all "meat and potatos", but when I see the word "re-imagined" on a restaurant menu I tend to suspect the worst.
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