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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45-61
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 18
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
High school
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am very liberal when it comes to others, can be personally conservative or off the liberal deep end depending on the issues. Happy go lucky, wear my heart on my sleeve. I consider myself the scientist type so I'm not big on New Age/Woo though the vast majority of my beloved friends are. Acceptance and compassion are prime directives in my life and should be a part of my partner's life as well.

I own two businesses, one established for more years than I have been alive, another a fledgling tech company, I'm also a Director for a charitable non-profit in Oregon.

I'm very busy, but will make time for you, more on that later
What I’m doing with my life
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Small business owner, building my future, making sure my free time is used in the best ways possible.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hammering, wrenching, creating, building, writing, spelling, cooking, fixing, playing, learning, relaxing, guitaring, flossing, vacationing, puttering, costuming, waiting, humoring, appreciating, wining(no whining!), napping, dining.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am often told I have great teeth, I smell nice, and I wear nice shoes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Princess Bride, A Brief History of Space and Time, Cook's Illustrated.

Movies: Amelie, The Princess Bride, Snatch, The Big Lebowski, Life is Beautiful (only the subtitled version!)

Music: Obsessed lately with electro swing such as Parov Stelar and 11 Acorn Lane, AKUS, Zero 7.

Foods: Well, I'm not overly fond of water chestnuts, liver, kale or carrots. Everything else is awesome, and should be re experienced often. Starchy carbs are nearly non-existent in my diet unless I'm eating out, then it's on!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, toothbrush, books, hot showers, friends, family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Quantum physics (seriously), the grand unification theory, chia pets. Did the Professor and Ginger ever have sex? What about Gilligan and Mary Ann? What about Gilligan and the Professor? Who was top? Was there coconut cream pie involved? I also want to know why no matter how hard I tried, my Sea Monkeys never grew to look like advertised on the package?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Studying, spending it with friends, meeting a new OKCupid match.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sappy movies can sometimes make me do the macho sniffle, cough and eye wipe.
You should message me if
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You like what you've read and you're ready to be treated with respect and consideration.

I am looking for a co-conspirator. A playful friend. A teammate. A partner. A trusted companion. An adventurer. A discoverer. Someone who will never stop reaching, learning, growing, and trying new things. Someone to share secrets with. Someone who is willing to laugh at me, with me, and to be laughed at. Someone who can be silly, but is still willing to talk in depth about the difficult issues and the great rewards of life and relationships. Someone who appreciates the connection between good health, and happiness. Someone who understands love is ultimately about care, and respect.

Finally, I'm currently involved in two intensive business ventures, time with friends, family and dating therefore need to be well planned for. It's a lot to balance but the payoff will be well worth it.