12/20/15 - I am not a smoker other than a rare cigar as the mood strikes me....have considered a pipe in the same manner. I don't mind being around smokers but do not wish to date someone who is a habitual smoker. in the manner i do would be fine. does anybody other than me really read all this stuff? lol first, let me say that i really don't enjoy trying to write about myself , i'd rather let people just get to know me and make up their own minds about who i am, but here goes: i am serious about a relationship, not a player and don't want to be. not into head games or drama. not looking to start another family with more kids of my own, but not opposed to it either. perfectly happy to be a stepdad and friend to your kids, if they'll have me. i am truthful to a fault and can be blunt. i love music and can appreciate most kinds. i'm not a dancer but i am willing to learn, and that includes taking lessons. i ride a motorcycle. not a huge sports fan, always would rather be playing than watcing when growing up. somewhat old fashion and conservative in my values, but if you've read my answers to the 2601 questions so far and and look at the tests i've take you'll find i have a bit of a wild streak to go with my conservative nature. i have my own sense of style; when relaxing its usually pull over shirts and jeans, sneakers or cowboy boots. work is office casual, and oh i wear cowboy boots for dress shoe, even with a tux (which i do own one)...just me. right now my hair is a very natural, somewhat white, rather than grey, shoulder length and subject to get longer, then again i might have it cut to mr. businessman tomorrow, and/or colored back to its original dark blonde; just hair and glad i have the options, some men don't. i think most men would probably agree with that last statement.
What I’m doing with my life
working...lol...well right now i'm doing this, seeing if i can find
that beautiful lady who makes my heart skip a beat and my thoughts
turn to love. at that point we can make some plans together. :)
I’m really good at
things i'm good at? hmmmm...lots of things...lol i'm a very stable
person, loyal to family and friends. I have what i believe to be a
great work ethic. man, this sounds boring, doesn't it? i have a
"can do" attitude, not going to let some stupid little something
like a computer whip my butt, it's just a "glorified calculator"
type of attitude. i am willing to try most anything once, but for
those things i don't do....i don't do them, period. examples, jump
off of a building with a rubberband tied to my ankle or jumping out
of a perfectly good airplane with a bedsheet tied to my back has
zero appeal to me, but i'll cheer you on if you want too.
The first things people usually notice about me
my easy laugh and grin...and i get a lot of compliments on my hair
color...a very natural white.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
i dont read a lot for pleasure these days, but history, religion,
nature, techincal stuff (sometimes) interest when i do. comedy,
westners, drama, vampires (true blood) covers what tv and or movies
i like when i watch. music taste is eclectic as the radio dial in
my car will atest. record, tapes, and cds are primarily classic
rock, with some counrty thrown in, foods...see food...thats my
The six things I could never do without
faith, family, health,and friends...beyond that everything else is
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my job requires an analytical mind set(engineering area)...so when
i not working i try to relax the brain unless otherwise engaged. i
do enjoy FRINEDLY, no anger, debates regarding religon and
politics, etc. I like to hear the other view points even if i don't
On a typical Friday night I am
eating at cracker barrel, their "friday fish fry", then home for
the evening. not a "go out alone" type person, but if i was dating
someone, i'd be up for movies, dining, entertaining at home,
hanging with friends at a pub, whatever.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i'll admit anything private to the right person, all they have to
do is ask. ;)
You should message me if
you are a lady who is serious about finding a great guy who is long
on patience and understanding, no games. if you're looking for a
man who will be happy just dancing barefoot in the den with candle
light and wine to some old songs in front of the fireplace or going
to a movie, and thinks she would love life that way, i might just
be your guy. let me know.