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tilopa

42 M Loveland, CO

My Details

Last Online
Dec 26, 2006
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Rather not say
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Arabic, Tibetan

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My self-summary
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At six years old, I was hopelessly fucked up for life by J. S. Bach's organ music... had nightmares about it for a while... and I couldn't get enough of it. Was musically and artistically talented from a very early age. Saw pictures of the Rider-Waite Tarot deck as a kid and they totally blew me away. All of my fundamental beliefs about life, the universe, and everything were formed as a pre-teen California-born transplant growing up in the woods of Maine and on it's quiet, life-filled rocky shores.

Started reading Carl Jung's Collected Works at 17, finished them while in the Army in my early 20s. Hated the roles we were expected to fill and follow in High School. Was a top student in school but refused to take the SATs. Joined the Army after graduation and learned Arabic, just in time for the Gulf War. Fortunately, instead of killing people, I got to spend 2 years living, playing, and eating with the most amazing Arabs from all over the Middle East. During my time in the Army, my interest in psychology, religion, spiritiality, mysticism, and even the occult exploded. At the end of my four years of service, my interests had returned to mathematics and physics which I went to school for immediately afterwards.

I studied physics and math at Austin Peay State Univeristy, UMASS Amherst, and UMCP (College Park, MD). Between UMASS and Maryland, I studied philosophy and meditation under a Tibetan Buddhist Lama in Frederick, MD and Dehra Dhun, India. As his attendant, I cooked for him, cleaned for him, assisted in teachings (which means I held stuff), and basically allowed my over-large ego to suffer much needed abuse. After the mind-blowing experiences of that time, returning to school seemd almost silly. I no longer worked my way to the top of the class; the intellect and its persuits had lost its shiney appeal. I proceeded to do instead the things I really loved... no matter how little they fed the ego :-)

I've just been chillin' since then... chillin' and learning about living...



I am poetic, vivacious, and eccentric.
What I’m doing with my life
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Running my own business (technology) and establishing partnerships with other businesses in an effort to grow a healthy community. In the early stages of working with a group of people to build a village in the mountains modeled on Tibetan and Native American community traditions. Putting the whole human experience together. Looking where we always forget to look. Continuing the ever-present walk on the Path... part Buddhist, shaman, Taoist, Sufi, Pagan, and Romantic.
I’m really good at
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Music, art, general programming, python, languages, math, science, communicating with people. Thinking about difficult problems and coming up with unique solutions.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Height, smile, clear blue eyes, red curly hair, nurturing energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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a) Frank Herbert, Greg Bear, Larry Niven, Neal Stephenson, J.R.R. Tokien, Issac Asimov, Arthur C. Clarke, Clive Barker, Castaneda, Douglas Adams b) StarWars (it has to be first! that's where I started as a kid!), Big Fish, Cold Mountain, Mansfield Park, Amelie, Chocolat, The Labrynth, The Dark Crystal, Ice Age, Finding Nemo, High Fidelity, The Matrices, Fight Club, Crouching Tiger, Monty Python, Austin Powers, Adam Sandler, Merchant Ivory films, Love Actually, anything by Akira Kurosawa, High-quality Anime, Good Sci-Fi, Bad Sci-Fi c) Bach, Techno, Soundtracks, Jazz, Blues, Indie Hiphop, DMB, Phish, 70s Rock, Grateful Dead, Sting, Sean Colvin, Tori Amos, Pete Yorn, Philip Glass, Radiohead, Coldplay, REM, Depeche Mode and tons of other shit d) Indian -- all the time, Tai, Organic
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, my tribe (family, friends, and people that share the same spirit space), hiking in the mountains, the unseen world, joy, curiosity.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex, love, understanding, compassion, diversions of the heart, diversions of the mind, the knowledge that all diversions are illusions :-) Some especially delicious illusions: the peace I feel at high elevations; sex; sex at high elevations; what it would be like to live in a yurt... or build a straw bale house; what it would be like to have sex in a yurt; how to fix the broken parts of society and governance at the local level; how tribes, villages and communities flourish; communing with the spirits; M-Theory; sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching Sci-Fi channel, working/playing on my laptop, chillin' w/friends. If I'm lucky, I've managed to get out to the mountains and am falling asleep watching the stars...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I test as three different Myers-Briggs types: INTP, INFP, and ENTP. And I'm a registered Green. Oh, and I am almost always an elf whenever I RPG with friends.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–70
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
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you're feeling froggy.