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38 / M / Straight / Single

Nashville, Tennessee

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Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.79m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
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Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I’m a smart aleck but I’m also a pragmatic problem solver. I can turn into Alvy Singer (see "Annie Hall") in the presence of a beautiful, intelligent woman. My genius friend Mandy told me that the right woman will be flattered, and for me to get over it because I'm "probably never going to find a compatible woman who isn’t intellectual."
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a grown up who never grew old. I work from home, volunteer and substitute teach, and I'm a dad.
I’m really good at
Doing the right thing when it's tough and I sometimes don't want to do it. I think that might be somebody's definition of a "gentleman." ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
Obviously my tan, ripped abs, and paternalistic demeanor. In all seriousness, I'm told that I look familiar a lot and clearly the "glasses vibe."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Man's Search For Meaning by Dr. Viktor Frankl. Female and foreign directors, great DPs. I have not had broadcast TV or cable for over five years, but I like good scripted stuff. Total hipster attitude toward stuff that's about as hip as Eddy Duchin. Thida or Basil, McNamara’s, la Hacienda Taqueria - any ill speech of these is fightin’ words!
The six things I could never do without
Sarcasm, self-deprecating humor as a form of false humility, my family, pragmatism, the beauty of nature, communication
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to solve all the world’s problems while maximizing people’s fulfillment and enjoyment of life - generally in tandem with doing something about it.

Also this: please google "new relationship dont do this for 30 days" - interview with Dr. Wendy Walsh.
On a typical Friday night I am
Overanalyzing, out on a date, or getting ready for a road trip, probably at the same time
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think it’s weird when people come to me seeking any kind of knowledge or advice. But then again, I am a huge know-it-all. Also, I think this profile is way too long.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You're self-possessed, have an inquisitive nature, live a healthy lifestyle, and aren't looking for your missing piece. You are 50% as excited about new Arrested Development as I am.