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58 Garrison, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–56
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:30pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Free spirited, open minded guy, looking for friendship, travel companion, fun and laughter.

I spent this winter chasing the sun. New Zealand, Hawaii, California, the Caribbean, Florida. I just returned from the New Orleans jazz fest. There was wine tasting, fly-fishing, golf, photography, and lots of time just taking in the scenery.

I'm clearly an old soul on a distinct path. Many external things in the world have lost their importance to me. The good news is that I am rarely stressed by external events. The challenge is finding friends that can relate to that at times.

This quote from Richard Feynman has always resonated with me:

"I can live with doubt, and uncertainty and not knowing.
I think its much more interesting to live not knowing,
than to have answers which might be wrong."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm an entrepreneur and always have been. I would probably be useless working for someone else, but it is unlikely I will ever find out. I like to do things in my own quirky way and it has worked out really well so far.

I own a successful consulting practice but am free to travel and make my own schedule. Our time on the planet is limited and that alone is a great motivation to enjoy each day.

Volunteer work is important to me. I have done counseling in the prisons and work with people going through trauma or stressful times.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Spontaneous adventure, conversation, listening, making travel plans, telling stories, finding easy ways to do things (my version of lazy), fly fishing, golf, barbeques and a home cooked meal.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I smile a lot and laugh to myself. I'm tall, friendly and easy going. I don't suffer fools gladly. I have a limited tolerance for small talk, and am not into long goodbyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
hmmm...Carl Hiaasen, Ken Follett, Jane Roberts, David Hawkins, Tina Fey, Paulo Coelho, Jeff Foster, Haruki Murakami, The New York Times, Eckhart Tolle, Bryon Katie.

Groundhog Day, Shakespeare in Love, Dances with Wolves, Rob Roy, A Christmas Carol. These are great stories that will never grow old for me. Jersey Boys, Book of Mormons - funniest play I have ever seen.

Love Stephen Colbert, Jon Stewart, Larry David, True Blood, Dexter, SNL, CNN, Homeland Security, Boardwalk Empire. I am a sap for the Voice and other talent shows.

John Coltrane, John Mayer, Maroon 5, Diana Krall, Kat Edmonson, Van Morrison, Elvis Costello, Toots Theilemans, Al Green, Annie Lennox, Jobim, Dave Mathews, David Gray, Jason Mraz, Neil Young, the list is endless. I love live music, esp. jazz.

I eat everything, but in very small quantities.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I do not know what I did before the IPAD was invented.
a good malbec
my friends
espresso in the morning
clean hair and clean sheets
fun sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What makes the universe work... Love...what it is and what it isn't.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I took a lot of hallucinogens when I was young. It had a very good impact on me. I have walked on hot coals in my bare feet. I do not recommend it.

I am not particularly private, as I cannot find a reason to hide things, but this is probably not the best forum. It is good for people to know me a little bit before I reveal too much. I like to have a sense of what can be handled and embraced by others. I have some pretty edgy ideas about life in general and they can easily be misinterpreted.

There is a lot to be said for transparency, especially with your partner. The willingness to be seen is an important aspect of intimacy.
You should message me if
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You are sensuous, fun loving, light hearted, know yourself pretty well, don't take this dating thing too seriously (including these profiles), understand the difference between love and being in love (there is a difference), and don't cut and run when things get challenging.