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timchale

62 / M / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:43pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
—
Drugs
—
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Libra but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
—
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I bring a lot to the table, meaning I'm somewhat intense, but with skills and some nice attributes. And of course at times drawbacks. I like really smart women. Who are beautiful, or cute. [And I know that is not a real sentence]. And who are really strong.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a solo law practice, specializing in intellectual property. I share custody of a wonderful 17 year old son who will soon be off to college. So, in some ways I am still trying to figure out the next phase.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at writing, listening and analyzing. Also, I was a mental health therapist for 10 years, so you have to be someone comfortable with yourself so that you don't feel overly scrutinized. I'm also damn good at making people feel cared for and loved. But the price is putting up w an acerbic, totally irreverant and at times raunchy sense of humor. Thin skinned need not apply.
The first things people usually notice about me
My silver hair not matching my more youthful face; my smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Love Pulp Fiction and No Country for Old Men. Fan of Hesse and Doestoevsky and of most forms of Asian cuisine, the spicier the better. Prefer movies to live theater by far. I love to cook, even bake pies with my own crust; hate the pre-made crusts. Love concerts in both big and small venues, though in the big ones I insist on getting good seats.
The six things I could never do without
My son, my friends, sports, sunshine, good food and drink and good books.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my son, how I can continue to be a good father to him as he comes of age; what kind of relationship awaits me with a woman
On a typical Friday night I am
These days home, eating w friends at a restaurant or at a Giants game now and again. I like to go out to live music, movies, etc. Don't care much for clubs so I avoid them. I also can last for a full hour at a museum without collapsing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
All human behavior is manipulation, for better or worse.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 42–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You would like someone engaging and bright with whom to spend time; you like a guy who looks as good in a suit as he does in jeans and a t-shirt. You like a guy that is romantic.