As for this rating system....if you aren't local, well it starts there, it may end there as well.
I probably should be calling it quits on on-line dating, I'm just not entirely ready to give up hope of a new love. It's still free to play and it only takes one right guy, so giving up hope, seems more foolish than staying in the game.
I'm not depressed, quite the contrary, I'm just getting on with life.
Details upon communication.
My focus has changed to loving and living life, It is so much easier, and fulfilling, than living to find love.
A travel Partner, would still be great!
and, no, I'm not going to initiate anything here.
If you're interested, write, if I am, I'll write back.
But, location, really does matter.
I'm really only interested in very, very local men. This side of the river or the other. I trend toward public transportation (yes, I do own a car), the arts, urban open spaces, and I do love Vermont. parks, gardens, the streets around town, the local Peet's. a museum, any time. music, most of the time, black, all the time, and still, colorful. I'm always happy in a museum, or garden.
It only occurred to me recently, that my lifestyle choices are more than a bit off the beaten path.
vegetarian, not vegan anymore, but have been. organic, when possible. limited sugar. NO TOBACCO.
I just read that. it must sound like a crazy woman to most, it won't to the right man.
There is always an element of choice. I've been known to go in search of dates, the other kind (unless I share them with you), stuffed with gorgonzola and wrapped with bacon and a martini. I know where to buy a most delectable duck, and very occasionally do. it's not about sacrifice at all.
Okay, like minded man, might be easier, on both of us. I'm not looking to change anyone. It's just too much work, life is too short.
I'm an Artist in transition. Ask me what that means in 5 years. I may have an answer. Today, I'm enjoying life, one day at a time. I do have dreams and goals. Really, I do.
My apt. is my current installation, That was a most interesting realization. Unraveling a whole tangle of life imposed mind games.
It's good, I'm working on them. The things I'm learning, stun myself, some days. I'm currently going through old papers that relate to a bill passed as part of the New Deal, it's incredibly interesting and a ton more work than I ever envisioned giving a gift would be.
Honestly, travel is much higher on my 'to-do' list.
Joy, is an everyday experience, and always a gift.
I'm patient (hard to believe, huh?), but know what I want in a man, and some of what I need from one. Loving, intelligent, fun(ny), and kind are but words. I'd like the embodiment of them, please. I try to share those things on a daily basis with most everyone, do you?
it would be nice to meet someone nice, and who remembers the true value of tulips in February. A little genuine, generic, gratitude in your spirit would be amazing. My set point is always optimistic, always grateful and sometimes a wee bit sad, but I bounce back, to the same happy place time and time again, I'm always adding to that happy place. It's quite full and eclectic, but not so full, there isn't room for you.
I want to be treated like a lady, but I used be handy on a job site, swinging a hammer, or planting a bed, I'm not afraid to get dirty.
I will do my best not to swear like a truck driver, as my mother used to tell me, I do. My friends don't think I'm inappropriate. That concludes the family and friends contribution to my profile.
and thus, concludes todays version of my 'summary'.
Copy write: june 2012.