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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 50–70
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:20pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Local, chick in chair, looking to keep her word large without the hassle of long distance dating.
when I want to travel, I do.
The OKC filters, keep those who are further out, and 'the just too young', thankfully.

If you live outside 'my neighborhood', quite simply, forget it.
if I don't know your zip code, I'm not likely to learn it.
I'm home, and happy here.

always learning new things, not always wanting to. The rewards most often, worth it.

Relationships begin and end with respect.
I do not need validation.
I have love, know love, and am love, as defined by much of my community, I am very much at home.
I lack that special companion, that leads to something more. Something magical.
It all starts with respect, and friendship. It won't get to friendship without respect.
If you have not taken the time to answer some of the questions, I'm taking that as an indication of how much work you're willing to put into a relationship, and will take the pass.
that said, I do not think the number mean anything accurate, as I'm all about community and caring for my neighbors, but if you look at their interpretation, I'm not.
The 92% match I know, has more giving as his personality type, and is most self absorbed.
I do not think he would argue, with my interpretation of his actions over the many years.
He is still, a good friend.
But personal generosity, of spirit and heart is not the same as the giving of things, and picking up the check. that's the easy part.
I'm looking for a man with a generous heart, a generous spirit, a love of art, and a loving heart.
we'll figure dinner out.

So now, the basic parameters are marked.
Please respect them.

More follows.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Chick in chair, living and loving life, rather, enjoying myself.
A few years ago it was October in Spain & Italy, Last fall recovered from a broken hip & foot (not nearly as much fun), now back up and 'running', I'm moving, as in apartments.
Not nearly as much fun.

I am creative, and curious by nature, though somewhat tamed by time.
I love 'home', as much as travel, and home my current installation.
(It is a purely biographical piece, that seems to travel too frequently)

I know, I'm chasing 'good art' (all genres)
It is always at the center of my travels,
and the subject of the books I read.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Overcoming obsticals.
I do live, mostly in a wheelchair.
I can also provide recreations of the moments I realized, "Ooops! this might not be my thing," and a few laughs.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
let's just say, either you can't miss me, or you can't see me, when either of us, enters the room.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Okay, let's start with food, as we all like to eat. most any vegetarian fare, well prepared by anyone who enjoys preparing it. This can be, a solo, a team, or even a group activity.
And, semi-regular feedings of sushi.
I don't believe in always 'being good', dates wrapped in bacon and stuffed with gorgonzola, and 'a girl next door', please! (it's not supposed to be about, self denial)
Books? Where do I begin? Mostly biographies about a variety of artists, architects, designers and musicians. I love to follow up with an exhibit or performance. If we get lucky, we can figure out how to get food into the theme, why not?
A fondness for fashion, not a clothes horse though. will send photos of closets upon request ;). It's a fun way to learn social history. My personal wardrobe is, urban, with an gentle twist of fate (the fabulous finds of Vintage shopping or collecting wonderful finds, for years.
Music? still chasing the last of the great blues performers. Otherwise music falls into two categories, good, and bad. Every genre has both. But, Lord, don't make me sit through The Ring again, and allow me the strength to leave during Rap, and anything that get's too twangy.
I don't own a TV. I can watch all the junk I want, and keep my addiction to TED lectures, satisfied, on this nifty little contraption.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I learned long ago, things are not the most important part of life. Having lost a husband and a family, I'm pretty sure there isn't much I could never live without, but these make me smile when they come to mind, and they come to mind, often.

My most, amazing, wonderful, kind, generous, friends.
Love, hope & a dash of faith.
Kindness & compassion.
art, (includes music, architecture, fashion, and good writing)
room to breathe, (freedom, choices....)
(so, I cheated, but I did keep it to 6, lines)
May I please add, coffee?

While my memories, have made the trip so far, worthwhile. I'd love to make some new wonderful ones, with a new and wonderful man. Until then, I happily, travel solo.
It's another, interesting experience.

so in the end, fill the bucket, with great memories & love.
life is only as good as, you make it, and you will cherish your memories.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
This could almost change daily, but this is an example of my mind's wanderings.
I'd really love to live in a museum.
which one?
I'm always thinking, aren't you?
yes, I think about healthcare everyday too,
and these wars and the fiscal mess. Who has the bomb this week? Wishing the people of the Mid-east would realize they have more in common than not, and figure out how to celebrate it.
I still enjoy thinking about living in a museum, where I will look at beautiful art, read fashion magazines and know nothing of the real world. Much more insulated from the day to day, I can't do anything about, is the dream.
Trust me, it just doesn't last.
Reality, always wins.
Today, I need to deal with shoes and boots.
I'll be sure to say "hi!" to the shoemaker.

I'm going back to, the museum.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday nights are less predictable, I could be out with friends or at a film, sometimes hanging in, as easily as out.
Now, Saturday nights. My now favorite time to do laundry. I'd love to change that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
1. how, very much, I miss, having a hand to hold.
2. all my shoes and boots, are black.
I only realized that this last fall myself, but wasn't at all surprised.

The question is the most private thing you are WILLING to admit.
I gave you 2.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're the interesting, intelligent, generous of spirit, 'guy next door', looking to meet your 'neighbor', for friendship, fun and possibly romance.