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31 • F • San Francisco, CA
I’m looking for
- Guys who like girls
- Ages 26–38
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Oct 19
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Science / Engineering
- Relationship Status
- Open relationship
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has dogs
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Poorly), German (Poorly)
Failing at picking usernames. Story time! When I realized my go-to username was taken while signing up for OKC, I tried out a few phrases I've always liked. One was "time flies like an arrow..." Lo and behold, timeflieslike was available, but I decided against it because it makes me sound like I'm in the midst of some sort of existential crisis. But, I was on my phone, and instead of hiding the keyboard I accidentally hit "go." Whoops. So here I am.
Photography, getting that perfect candid photo of a friend. Trying new food. Singing to myself and alarming my dog. Update: now accompanied by a ukulele. My dog is becoming quite accomplished at giving me long-suffering looks. Currently working on: Fake Plastic Trees, Dog Days of Summer. I also found a tab for Stairway to Heaven on a low-G ukulele, because the internet is a wonderful place.
I'm in an open relationship with someone fantastic, so I'm not looking for a partner, but I do like meeting great people. I think there's a lot of space for different types of relationships in life, and I hate that traditional dating is set up to treat everyone as either marriage material or a one-time hookup. Just like with friendships, there's a lot of variation out there, and I think we should treat each other with care and respect, regardless.
Recently a coworker taught me to introduce myself in Russian. Less exciting, though perhaps more useful?
Also, my dog. She's quite the conversation starter. An eccentric man on the MUNI told me all about helping to deliver a litter of Irish Setter puppies and successfully giving one of them mouth-to-mouth because he wasn't breathing. I still have no idea if he was bullshitting me or not.
I'm a sucker for movies with twist endings, which means I'm usually disappointed (M Night Shyamalan) but sometimes not (Fight Club!). Other favorites: Princess Bride, Hot Fuzz, Little Miss Sunshine. Sometimes Wes Anderson. Recently: Her. Hot damn, that movie.
Books: Snow Crash, World War Z (I have not actually seen the movie), Wool, In The Woods, Bossypants, Surely You're Joking Mr Feynman, Einstein's Dreams, short stories by Neil Gaiman.
TV shows: Sherlock, Parks & Rec, 30 Rock, Breaking Bad, Castle, Firefly, Futurama. Jurassic Bark is the saddest thing of all time (note: that may be hyperbole).
Music: Ida Maria, Passion Pit, Matt & Kim, Arcade Fire, Caro Emerald, Alabama Shakes, OK Go, Phantogram, Tennis, Neutral Milk Hotel, cheesy 80s music.
(I'm starting to realize this section makes me sound more coordinated than I am. I'm sorry to say, my depth perception is crap, and I'm not joking around about being the first to die in a zombie-related public health incident.)
... I didn't guarantee that it would make a lot of sense, or necessarily involve *good* music, but there you go.
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