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34 M Des Plaines, IL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Polish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Let's face it... it definitely takes some effort, timing, and possibly luck in this crazy world of online dating. But hey, nothing of any real value comes easy in life, right? Somehow it's all worth it when you find the right person.

Anyway, I'm confident there's still amazing single men and women available on this site. If you continue to read my profile below, hopefully you'll consider me one. :)

**** Here's what you really want to know: ****
I'm genuine, fun, happy, nicer than most people, don't live with my parents, and have my life together. Also, I promise you that I have a great career, excellent teeth, a full head of hair, I've never been arrested, don't have any STDs, don't smoke or do drugs, and I'm not a player, cheater, or stage-5 clinger!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Born and raised on the NW side of Chicago, I lived in Wicker Park after college and currently reside in nearby Des Plaines. I go back and forth on wanting to return to the city... maybe this summer.

I like to keep active, which includes all the things everyone mentions (running, working out, playing/watching sports, live music, fests, movies, traveling, exploring, continually learning and challenging myself, etc).

If you're into sports, I follow the Cubs, Bears, Blackhawks, Bulls, and Illini. I'm always up for a friendly rivalry though! I also play on a few softball and volleyball teams for fun.

I'm close with my family. They raised me with values, so I always try to do the right thing. I care about things like the environment, animals, and helping others.

At the same time, I'm really just a chill guy so I can get pretty ridiculous and have fun in nearly any situation. I tend to be sarcastic and playful when I really click with someone, so hopefully you can take it and dish it out!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Playing most sports
- Fantasy football (for those of you who play or care)
- Working with computers and electronic gadgets
- Being an awesome uncle to my nephews and nieces
- Coming up with fun and creative Halloween costumes
- Paying attention to details (your new outfit, nail color, etc)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a dashing, athletic guy, with a unique shade of dark auburn hair, and I look younger than my age.

And if they feel my shirt (a la Seinfeld), then they'll often notice it's made of boyfriend material. :P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I prefer classics like The Great Gatsby, Catch-22, etc.

Movies: Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Anchorman, Super Troopers, Office Space, Wedding Crashers, BASEketball, Billy Madison, Dumb & Dumber, The Hangover, Fight Club, Matrix, Star Wars, Inception, Eternal Sunshine, Life of Pi, Back to the Future.

Shows: The League, Big Bang Theory, HIMYM, Parks & Rec, New Girl, Arrested Development, Mad Men, Breaking Bad, Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Seinfeld, Family Guy, Cosmos.

Music: Love most 90's music, alternative, rock, and some pop. Currently: Foo Fighters, No Doubt, Weezer, Linkin Park, 311, Incubus, Pearl Jam, Chevelle, Rise Against, Kings of Leon, Imagine Dragons, J-Timberlake, Katy Perry, Kacey Musgraves.

Food: Italian and Mexican cuisines. I could eat pizza or Chipotle almost every day if I didn't try to eat somewhat healthy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cell phone
Live music
Tropical vacations
Delicious food/drink (cheese, chocolate, chips & guac, craft beer, etc)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Many different things... people, life, music, love, language, society, the future, travel, girls, the weekend, my career, the universe, ways I can improve myself, how things work, and how to shorten my okcupid profile.

Also, who should I message on here? I mean there's literally thousands of cute Chicago area girls on this site with interesting profiles. It's actually kind of overwhelming. Honestly, beauty isn't difficult to find, so I'm looking for a girl who stands out in other ways too. I want someone who brings another dynamic to my life and adds to the adventure.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out socializing with friends, on a date, or at the gym.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically, great legs, freckles, pierced belly-buttons, and girls who look cute in a Chicago team's jersey or t-shirt frequently attract my attention. These are simply things I appreciate though, not requirements by any means.

I'm an ENFJ if you're into that sort of thing. I read this one is pretty rare, especially for guys (only about 2%).

Also, I've had good luck and successful relationships on this site before, but it's been an uneventful summer for my dating life as we enter September now. It's been a fun, busy summer for me anyway. However, I finally have the feeling that I'm about to meet someone awesome. Perhaps it's you?
You should message me if
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You're cute, fun, and like my profile! It's really that simple. If you're into sports/fitness, traveling, comedies, trying new things, and live music (especially alternative/rock/pop) then you should literally message me right now, because that's a damn good start!

And if you want to get my attention, include some asterisks (*****) at the beginning of your message so it stands out. This helps me filter out spam and people who didn't read my profile.

Or you can also rate me 4-5 stars. I'll get a notification and will gladly take the initiative to message you if there's mutual interest and the timing is right.

Good luck to everyone!