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38 New York, NY Man


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  • Ages 18–44
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6′ 3″ (1.91m)
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Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
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Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Fluently), LISP (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Ask me if you'd like to know something, I'm an open book and love to meet interesting people.

I am an artist (visual arts mostly), and work as a software engineer at The New York Times.

Otherwise, traveling around the world, focusing on that which I enjoy most -- I've yet to find a place or culture I haven't absolutely fallen in love with.
What I’m doing with my life
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Exploring life, pursuing dreams, expanding pleasure

I tend not to think of "my life". I believe life is fundamentally simple, that the complexities and beauty of nature can be uncovered when we look beyond our own imagined complexities

I believe the purpose of life is to live; follow your heart, follow your bliss, just be-- when there is no goal there is a spontaneous and uninhibited energy, an emergent freedom of being and the continuous discovery of life in each moment --and with that awareness life is transformed into a joyous innocence of being.

I've recently gotten into tantric sex and tantra, meditative states of nondualism, and nirvikalpa samadhi -- initially as part of art projects -- it has been life changing. There are pleasures in this world I never dreamed possible, pushing the body and mind to ever-expanding sensations of pleasure and bliss. If you're interested or even curious I'm more than happy to discuss.
I’m really good at
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Computational Mathematics?
Letting go of ego, maintaining an almost childlike awe to the world around us
The first things people usually notice about me
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shy awesomeness?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Joseph Campbell, Krishnamurti, Rumi, Nietzsche, Proust (only when I'm feeling vain), Oscar Wilde, and various science/nature writing-- I tend towards non-fiction.

I love movies, from terrible B-list cult classics like Buckaroo Banzai to the more mainstream classics like Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, A Clockwork Orange, Amelie, The Big Lebowski, Into the Wild, Trainspotting, Twelve Monkeys, The Princess Bride, Tampopo, etc ... I recently fell in love with Only Lovers Left Alive

I eat almost everything (no matter where on earth I find myself, if I see someone eating something, then it must be edible so I'll happily dig in), I especially love Korean and Vietnamese food, French desserts, delicious wines too complex for my limited understanding of wine, well-brewed beers without pretense, and most of all new foods I've yet to experience!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Life, it seems, has an ironic sense of humor, everytime I think "I could never do without this", that thing will usually be lost.

So perhaps my current, soon to be lost, necessities includes:

+ relaxing
+ transcendent bliss
+ awareness of beauty
+ loving kindness
+ travel
+ art
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything! Often times I think about thinking; cognitive heuristics are one of my favorite subjects for thought experiments.

And while I think a lot, I find the process limiting and self-exhausting.

In the exhaustion of thought, there is a silence of mind and the experience of the inexhaustible, a blissful beautiful freedom, a choiceless awareness of the world as it truly exists. The experience seems similar to Mescaline or Salvia, but only in that it's impossible to describe articulately in words.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't think I've had a "typical" night since moving to NYC, this city is amazing.

I guess my absolute favorite times of the week are the midday weekdays, say Tuesday around 2pm, you'll often find me at a cafe or diner, headphones on, sitting quietly reading and sipping on tea. The joy of these moments I cannot fully express.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I strangely never cried during movies, but I cried a little during Lilo & Stitch-- that scene where he runs into the wilderness with the story book, without family or home he stares existentially into the stars and says, "I'm lost" -- I'm about to cry just thinking about it
You should message me if
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you're curious, and perhaps want to explore, or chat about possibilities, or chat about life or travel or food or art ...

I adore loving kind-hearted people; Strange people, normal people, smart people, silly people, people who love animals, people who love life ...

While I get along with most everyone, I tend to avoid those who define life with cynicism and apathy, I gravitate towards those with an honest lust for life, a sentimentality even, a willingness to be vulnerable appreciating beauty

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