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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–100
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Mar 16
Body Type
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Open relationship
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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queer femme that's really into land, exploring power dynamics, skill-building, skin on skin, brutally sad songs & slammin dance beats, honeybees, memory, SNACKS, clear communication, making plant medicine, magic, oh & snaxxx!

i am attracted to other queers, all the fuck over that there gender spectrum. femme babes especially welcome.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
---this information is multiple years old! life has changed and i would write about it differently too. ask me if ya care.---

living in a shack on an urban land project with a whole mess of other people. cultivating healthy, supportive relationships. making medicine and learning about bodies. invoking wild bee swarms to help me build up an apiary. running around the forest singing little songs. flirting. tryna become a responsible person in service to the vastly-improbable-but-still-necessary-vision of collective liberation. radical queer organizing projects, ever-experimenting with the goal of active and applied politics. tryna create stands of medicinal perennials, growing some food. exploring various means of connecting to the erotic and kink respectively. finding poetics, feeling crazy, reading and writing. sometimes missing the east coast with a deep deep ache, sometimes falling hard in love with the northwest (only 3 years deep). wondering how to interface with capitalism & also help nourish the rev (wage labor is really real). working towards the dismantlement of white supremacy while obvs having been steeped in its accompanying privilege. seeking and weaving stories, practicing story-telling, nudging into mythologies. little crafty projects. always trying to keep learning, challenging myself and others.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being quaint-core, remembering weird tiny details about plants and medicinal actions, making potions for people that i care about, noticing when shit is problematic, swimming like a happy happy fish, excitement about arts'n'crafts, being hella woo and east coast snarky all at once, nasty-nice glam drag, switch-spooning, femme appreciation, snack advocacy, building blanket forts, reading fast, playing doctor, being enthusiastic about projects, asking questions, spontaneous dance parties...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
y'all can let me know. i have no idea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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i only have the attention span to list books and music right now. i really love movies & food and rarely watch shows.

caliban and the witch by sylvia federicci, that's revolting: queer strategies for resisting assimilation (mattilda bernstein sycamore), assata by assata shakur, persistence: all ways butch & femme, discipline and punish by michel foucault, written on the body by jeanette winterson, sandman by neil gaimon, colonize this! young women of color on today's feminism anthology, their eyes were watching god by zora neale hurston, stone butch blues by leslie feinburg, the one straw revolution by masanobu fukuoka, the phantom tollbooth, invisible cities by italo calvino, labyrinths by borges, capacity by theo ellsworth, many zines, hella herbalism & beekeeping books, more gay shit, etc...

i need help listening to music other than what i've been relying on for years now....if you want to help me, that would be awesome. trash pop, motown, delta blues...grimes, austra, salt n peppa, the blow, the gossip, MIA, beirut, missy elliott, animal collective, tom waits, joanna newsom, wu tang, fucking dyke bitches, bessie smith, eric b & rakim, bikini kill, mr. gnome, godspeed, the books, gravy train!!!!, mf doom, cocorosie, wolves in the throne room, erik satie, sei hexe, dark dark dark, rachmaninov, my friends...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
place-based connection
liberatory struggle
romantic friendships
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
much of the above...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
right now, i'm mainly lookin for dates who are also seeking hot, safe, and kinky hangouts. ongoing connections are fun. verbally expressive people receive so many bonus points. i really like it when others know what they like/want and are able to talk about that! collaborative pleasure-making is the jam.

hey especially to uncompromising bitches, femme tops, s/witches, people that are careful with their masculinity, and tender loudmouth fags.
You should message me if
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you wanna take this offline real fast.

oh, also, if you want to teach me american sign language or practice storytelling together.