I identify as a queer person. I feel very gender fluid, but also embrace being a female bodied person.
I want to make friends! mainly with people who like to go out dancing. People who want to hang out at a coffee shop and talk for hours.
I keep myself busy playing music, reading, going to shows, and hanging out with really good friends.
I am actively working on unlearning a lot of very specific behaviors///working against heteronormativity, sexism, rape culture, racism, colonialism, ageism, classism...and I literally mean working on.
I am shy.
Rant #1: I dislike monogamy for the dynamics that it perpetuates. I love loving someone completely and committing to them completely but not having it boxed into a "relationship"status. I also don't know how this works yet, and am still trying to figure it out.
I wish that OKcupid had more options for gender. its very limiting to just be m or f or only looking for m who likes f or f who likes m or f who likes f or m who likes m. it excludes so many possibly amazing interactions and friendships that could be had.