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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 31–43
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 18, 2013
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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To describe myself is probably a bad thing as I normally down play all positive traits and up sell all my negative traits. I'm a optimistic pessimist , the glass is half full of air type. Have spent most of my life being an introvert with a phobia of interacting with people save for the last couple of years. I am analytical, enjoy reading technical and science literature, gaming, a descent cook, very amateur gardener, and highly adaptable.
I just decided the complete isolation is just not healthy. Being a non-hormone driven male has been something of a disadvantage as it is not what people normally expect. I am very much relationship driven and looking for a compatible or complimentary personality to go out with. I guess I just got tired of being cold and alone in the world. I largely have zero experience in dating or relationships, but you have to start somewhere sometime. I am relatively likable and very open to trying new things.
What I’m doing with my life
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I was working in light industrial maintenance for most of the time I have been in North Carolina. However after the last layoff in 2008 work got hard to find so after awhile I started to put my self back in school to get my BS in Biotechnology. I had a associate in industrial systems, but not much transfer over. I had gotten the first degree because it seemed like the logical thing do given what I was doing. This time I going into a field I want to get into. I have always had a thing for science....sweet sweet science. So I am something of a senior freshmen. I going to get my degree, get me a nice 6 figure job, and keep working for a graduate then a doctorate. This profile is also an attempt to improve upon my social failings. You don't get better without practice.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sometimes I think it is coming up with worst case scenarios lol. I try not to let myself think I am good at thing for fear of becoming to complacent. I have a passable sense of humor. I am a good listener. I am also non-judgmental and quite rational. I am quite good at rambling once I'm comfortable. Had a supervisor one time say for the first 3 months he didn't say a word, now we can't get him to shut up.
The first things people usually notice about me
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He is a strange one. He is nice, sweet, and funny, just weird.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I do like comedy and horror in turns of movies and shows. I really miss George Carlin. I was also a massive fan of Monty Python and a MST3K fan.My music tends to be mood driven. I do have a soft spot for video game soundtracks.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Being that I grew up dirt poor the first three would be food, water, and shelter. Everything else is just stuff and stuff can be replaced or worked around. The only thing I could think of is other people, I starting to like being around people on a more personal level. If I manage to find love I probably would never want to do without it again.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The world and my place in it. I also spend a great deal of time thinking about school.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately I seem to be going out with friends to bars, restaurants, and clubs. But cuddling up on the couch with a bad movie sounds nice too.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really don't have an out of bounds place so I willing to answer any question asked. Sadly I have nothing to hid, I need to get out more.
You should message me if
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Interested in trying to develop a solid relationship.