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53 F North Arlington, NJ

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I think Andy Rooney got it right. I've been told I can be intimidating – and it makes me laugh. I am sarcastic, yes ... but I never use it for evil purposes. I'm happy, energetic, loyal, forthright, and allergic to drama. I look great, I feel great, and I am far sexier than women half my age. This is called confidence. I value a smile, a good laugh, and a great sense of humor. If you don’t, well … we’re probably not a good match; likewise, if you can't see the humor in this commentary.

I am well acquainted with my shortcomings and limitations. I know who I am, what I am, what I want and from whom. You like me or you don’t, if you don’t - move on, I won’t be insulted. While something long term would be nice, I won't jump into anything. I am, however, a sucker for dimples, and a man who knows that chivalry is not dead and who can demonstrate that kissing is NOT a lost art!

I will not yell at you or tell you what to do, you’re a grown man … you can figure it out; besides, yelling is a waste of my time and energy. I want peace in my life, it is much more important than arguing about stupid things. Know that I won't hesitate to call you on a bonehead move, if you deserve it. Feel free to do the same.

I won’t wake you up in the middle of the night to talk about something. If I want to know what you think, I'll ask you, and if I DO wake you up in the middle of the night, you can bet that I’ll have a better reason! ;) If you want my opinion, ask me - I’ll give you an honest answer, and I will be nice. Don’t ask me if you expect me to sugar coat the truth or lie about it. I won't do either. I will NEVER ask you ‘Does this make me look fat?’ I have a mirror. I know. I don't need you to tell me.

I am not psychic, but I just know things. Don’t lie ... I don’t lie. Head Games = Lying - just sayin' and please, don't ask for my number if you have no intention of ever using it; I'm a big girl, I know that not every man I meet will have some burning desire to see me again. Honestly, is there a contest to see how many numbers you can collect?!

I love the beach, any island destination, exploring, and being around people. I enjoy Scrabble, a good debate, and a great joke. I sing with a band.

I don't want to chat or email endlessly, to assess chemistry, people have to be in the same room, so please be willing to meet in person, sooner rather than later. You won’t have any trouble recognizing me. My picture looks like me (the rest I can't post ... too small! They're available on request.) Seriously, why would someone put up pictures from 20 years or 30 lbs ago? The first guy I met said ... "Oh! you look like your picture!" to which I responded, "Why wouldn't I look like my picture?" He smiled and said, "You must be new at this." Do these people think we won't find out? It begs the question "What else are you fibbing about?"
What I’m doing with my life
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Focused on happiness and good health ... Livin' the dream!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
lots of things
The first things people usually notice about me
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hmmm hair? I don't know!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Clancy, The Harry Potter series, Anne McCaffrey
Food: not Indian - food should not be painful
Music: almost anything - from Etta James to Ann Wilson, not a big fan of classical ( though I aprreciate it) and rap is not music
Movies: current, classic, and the old musicals
A Beautiful Mind, It's a Wonderful Life, Singin' in the Rain, to Catch a Thief, Limitless
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good food
laughter, lots of laughter
my kids
chivalry (seems I might have to ... it's barely breathing)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
an ocean breeze, soft sand, and umbrella drinks
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out engaging with people or home with a great book or movie ... all depends on my mood ... grateful that my alarm will not be sounding at 5am on Saturday morning
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I will perform karaoke stone cold sober and make conversation with small children.
You should message me if
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my profile interests you ... and you won't ask my bra size. :/