54 Easton, PA
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My self-summary
A couple of things up front:

1. Please respect that I am not interested in any of the following:
>> long-distance 'friends' or romance (please live within 30-45 minutes)
>> casual sex or FWB (been there, done that; not any more)
>> threesomes (not a judgment call, but no thank you)
>> married men (if you're separated, let's talk about your personal situation)

2. If you have no picture and/or a blank profile and are unwilling to supply either, please pass me by.

3. Please, evaluate your situation and contact me only if you have time for a relationship.

4. I am proficient with GIS; enough said.

About me: I'm new to the Lehigh Valley, having relocated due to work opportunities. I've been told I can be intimidating – and it just amuses me. I'm confident - not arrogant - and while I am sarcastic, I never use it for evil purposes. I'm happy, energetic, loyal, forthright, and allergic to drama. I value a smile, a good laugh, and a great sense of humor. I am established personally and in my profession - it gives me pleasure to seek out challenge and effect change.

Ultimately, I am seeking a LTR however, I am not prepared to jump into anything. I am, however, a sucker for dimples, chivalry, and a man who can demonstrate that kissing is NOT a lost art! I love the beach, any island destination, exploring, and being around people. I enjoy Scrabble, a good debate, and a great joke. I sing with the band.

I am not psychic, but I just know things. Don’t lie ... I don’t lie. Head Games = Lying (just sayin')

About you: You're established, and have a positive outlook; you are confident, interesting, and intelligent. You don't 'need' a woman in your life, you 'want' one. You value a great relationship and understand the need to cultivate the same. If you don’t, well … we’re probably not a good match; likewise, if you can't see the humor in this commentary. Be prepared to take the time to get to know me.

One final note: The 'Like Me' feature is not useful unless you've upgraded, and while I have had that status in the past, it's just not worth it. I don't want to chat or email endlessly, and, to assess chemistry, people have to be in the same room, so please be willing to meet in person, sooner rather than later. You won’t have any trouble recognizing me. My pictures look like me. Seriously, why would someone put up pictures from 20 years or 30 lbs ago?

The first guy I met said ... "Oh! you look like your picture!"
Me: "Why wouldn't I look like my picture?"
Him: (smiling) "You must be new at this."
Do these people think we won't find out? It begs the question "What else are you fibbing about?"

*** I do not give OKCupid or any of it's entities permission to use my pictures, information, or posts. By this statement, OKCupid is strictly forbidden to disclose, copy, distribute, or take any other action against me based on this profile and/or its contents. The content of this profile is private and confidential information. The violation of privacy can be punished by law (UCC 1-308 - 1 1 308-103 and the Rome Statute). ***
What I’m doing with my life
Focused on happiness and good health ... Livin' the dream.
I’m really good at
Expressing things succinctly
Solving problems
Being in the moment
Seeing the silver lining
The first things people usually notice about me
hmmm ...my hair? People always comment on my hair ... and the fact that I look much younger than my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Clancy, The Harry Potter series, Anne McCaffrey - and others

Food: not Indian - food should not be painful

Music: almost anything - from Etta James to Ann Wilson, not a big fan of classical ( though I appreciate it) and rap is not music

Movies: current, classic, and the old musicals - too many to name
A Beautiful Mind, It's a Wonderful Life, Singin' in the Rain, To Catch a Thief, Limitless - anything with Gene Hackman, Cary Grant, Gary Cooper, or Gene Kelly
The six things I could never do without
Creature Comforts
My Kids
Laughter, including sarcastic banter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1. An ocean breeze, soft sand, and umbrella drinks ...
2. What the hell I'm doing here?
3. What is wrong with people?!
On a typical Friday night I am
out engaging with people or home with a great book or movie ... all depends on my mood ... grateful that my alarm will not be sounding at 6am on Saturday morning
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will perform karaoke stone cold sober and make conversation with small children. I'm a recovering Catholic.
You should message me if
all of the following are true ...
1. Your work/residence are local to me (within 25 miles or so)
>>working overseas for months/weeks at a time doesn't count

2. You don't misrepresent yourself
>> for those of you passing yourself off as members of the
armed services on duty overseas ... shame on you!

3. You aren't put off by confident and independent women

4. You don't think PA is a foreign country

AND some of the following are true ...
1. You can make any activity fun
2, You dance
3. You'll kiss me in public