I am well acquainted with my shortcomings and limitations. I know who I am, what I am, what I want and from whom. You like me or you don’t, if you don’t - move on, I won’t be insulted. While something long term would be nice, I won't jump into anything. I am, however, a sucker for dimples, and a man who knows that chivalry is not dead and who can demonstrate that kissing is NOT a lost art!
I will not yell at you or tell you what to do, you’re a grown man … you can figure it out; besides, yelling is a waste of my time and energy. I want peace in my life, it is much more important than arguing about stupid things. Know that I won't hesitate to call you on a bonehead move, if you deserve it. Feel free to do the same.
I won’t wake you up in the middle of the night to talk about something. If I want to know what you think, I'll ask you, and if I DO wake you up in the middle of the night, you can bet that I’ll have a better reason! ;) If you want my opinion, ask me - I’ll give you an honest answer, and I will be nice. Don’t ask me if you expect me to sugar coat the truth or lie about it. I won't do either. I will NEVER ask you ‘Does this make me look fat?’ I have a mirror. I know. I don't need you to tell me.
I am not psychic, but I just know things. Don’t lie ... I don’t lie. Head Games = Lying - just sayin' and please, don't ask for my number if you have no intention of ever using it; I'm a big girl, I know that not every man I meet will have some burning desire to see me again. Honestly, is this some kind of contest to see how many numbers you can collect?!
I love the beach, any island destination, exploring, and being around people. I enjoy Scrabble, a good debate, and a great joke. I sing with a band.
I don't want to chat or email endlessly, to assess chemistry, people have to be in the same room, so please be willing to meet in person, sooner rather than later. You won’t have any trouble recognizing me. My picture looks like me (the rest I can't post ... too small! They're available on request.) Seriously, why would someone put up pictures from 20 years or 30 lbs ago? The first guy I met said ... "Oh! you look like your picture!" to which I responded, "Why wouldn't I look like my picture?" He smiled and said, "You must be new at this." Do these people think we won't find out? It begs the question "What else are you fibbing about?"