Short version: I am a good man looking for a good woman who wants a long term relationship and probably some children. I would insert some humor but prefer to make you smile in messages :-)
The best word to describe my personality is: stoic. I control my emotions and passions and maintain my composure. Especially during times of stress and uncertainty. I do not lack passion or emotion; rather, I choose not to act in overly emotional, reactive or ridiculous ways. This skill was gained due to my difficult childhood.
Other ways to describe me are: confident, intensely curious, highly disciplined, empathetic, friendly, enigmatic, very intelligent, honest, deeply spiritual, strategic, 51% realist 49% optimist, mature / “old soul”, respectful, trustworthy, very strong will, loyal, attentive, exceptionally tolerant & organized. Don’t worry if this seems overly serious. I still know how to have a good time and be outgoing, but it is best to show those qualities in person ;-) I also recognize when there is something wrong with others. My friends feel confident sharing their troubles with me; to either analyze them or simply so they can vent. They know that I will not violate their trust or privacy. I am known as “Dr. Tito” by more than a few of them.
What I’m doing with my life
Working on my "200 Year" Plan.
I’m really good at
Personal growth. I'm always "sniffing around" discovering new
things, figuring out how things work, and looking at things I
already know in a new light.
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue eyes, shaved head, and confident demeanor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I’m just going to hijack this part and say what I like to do in my
Active Lifestyle (running, walking, swimming)
Cinema/Comedy (out and at home)
Classical Culture (ballet, literature, museums)
Geeky Things (Spider-Man, Star Trek, Star Wars, Teenage Mutant
Ninja Turtles, Walking Dead & X-Men)
Motorcycles (actually, driving any vehicle)
Nature (camping, constellations/stargazing, farming,
Music (preferences are very diverse. I appreciate all music as a
form of human expression)
Sports (Green Bay: Gamblers, Packers & Phoenix; Also the Timber
The six things I could never do without
Quarks, Leptons, Bosons, Photons, Gravity, and Hope. You know, all
the little stuff.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How the past and future intersect in the here/now and how to live
life fully in the moment while being aware of the intersection.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually working, but all of the following have happened: Catch a
train to Frankfurt, Germany at 10pm and get home at 8am. Stay at
home, read a book and fall asleep by 10pm. Watch movies with my
friends. Go to a dance club and end up owning the place. Stay in
and cook for five people and tell stories. End up at an ice-skating
rink (even though I've never ice-skated before) and fall on my butt
a few times, but still manage to have a good time!? Yep, that's
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My name is Joseph, but a lot of my friends call me Tito. Hence my
You should message me if
Looks are important. Smarts are important. In fact, everything is
important! After all, my intent is to find a partner & I
definitely bring a lot to my side of that bargain. So if you think
you have it all together, why not send me a message?