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tjasl

32 / M / bisexual / Single

Portland, Oregon

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5' 10" (1.77m).
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
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No
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Rarely
Drugs
Never
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Kids
Has children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am living, loving, and learning!.

My Self-Summary

Hello, Hola, Bonjour, Hallo, Ciao, Kia Ora, Sawa Dee, Aloha, Salaam, Shalom and Namaste!

I'm here in search of friendly folks to do fun things with, such as: hiking, camping, traveling, sharing some tea &/or (vegan!) food, watching a movie, snuggling, or *YOUR IDEAS HERE*! If something "more" develops between us - great! If you are simply looking to be "just friends", that can be quite nice too. Let's just be ourselves, get to know each other and see where this leads us!

While open to different possibilities, I am most interested in finding someone to share a deep, intimate and lasting relationship with. Please note that I am *not* interested in legal/religious/"traditional" marriage.

I greatly enjoy physically expressing affection but I also tend to be somewhat reserved so please feel free to take the initiative!

I've had a vegan diet since I was 15 and I do not foresee being in a lasting intimate relationship with someone who is not vegan or quite close to it.

While I'm not "straight edge", if drugs of any non medically needed sort are a major part of your life then sharing much time together will probably be mutually frustrating. And yes - alcohol, tobacco and "herbal" drugs are still drugs by my definition.

My wonderful children live with their mother and I am with them daily or near daily. If you and I share much time together then you will almost certainly get to know my kids. That said, I am not expecting or asking for you to be another parent. On a closely related note, my vasectomy is about 6 years old. I love my children and children generally but I do not wish to help create any more.

Some of my interests include: helping others & helping others help themselves - learning & sharing what I've learned - wild lands: forests, hills, mountains - hot springs - islands - bookstores & libraries - trains, trams & ferries - bicycles - diy/free living & travel - camping, hiking & simply being in nature - wild edible plants - emergency & natural medicine - developing deep & lasting friendships - sharing tasty & nutritious vegan food - social justice - personal freedom - ecological sustainability & simple living - recreational & competitive shooting - defense training of many types - learning other languages - flea markets, yard sales, swap meets, trade circles...

It would be really wonderful if you want to explore, enjoy and experience any or all of these interests with me!

I’m really good at

Collecting and using coupons. Playing tour guide: I enjoy showing folks around my city/region ( Portland, Oregon / Cascadia ) but I research just about everywhere I go & often find cool places/stuff even most locals don't know about!

The first things people usually notice about me

Physically I'm told that I have great legs and a nice ass, as well as kind eyes.

Words I've heard used to describe my personality include: fun, down-to-earth, kind, relaxed, sarcastic in a good way and a good listener.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Mostly non-fiction and mostly travel or "how-to" guides.

Movies: Tillsammans aka Together, 28 Days Later, Everything is Illuminated, Lord Of The Rings, Foxfire, Panther, Shaun of the Dead, Drugstore Cowboy, Man On Fire, Salt Of The Earth, Matewan, The Edukators, Rick Steves & Globetrekker travel videos

Movies I've not yet seen but wish to: Cthulhu & 2012

Music: Manu Chao, Dead Silence, Los Crudos, Contropotere, Dead Prez, The Coup, Casey Neill, Tch-Kung!, David Rovics, The Knife, Akil Ammar, Sin Dios. In general, I like music that makes me feel and/or that has a positive message.

Food: I'll try almost any vegan food at least once but I generally prefer wild, raw, local, organic, natural foods. I'm particularly fond of blueberries, watermelon, fresh multi-colored salads, hemp foods, dark chocolate with nuts, kombucha, Yerba Mate, Thai, Vietnamese, Mexican, Ethiopian, Greek and Lebanese.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

finding a wonderful friend and sweetie to share fun adventures with, traveling - regionally & worldwide, what it would be like to live in other countries, education/training & gear that I'd like to have...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I tend to be more motivated and active when I have someone to share/do/be with...

You should message me if

You've read my profile and think that we'd enjoy each others company. Also message me if there is anything that you'd like to know about me that I haven't yet covered here.