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43 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:20am
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I am a cool, normal guy. I feel obligated to be clear on my normalcy because from what I hear there are A LOT of dudes that are not normal doing online dating, but I promise you, I am normal. I'm also fun, kind, well adjusted, and happy. I have been in some great relationships with some phenomenal women, but I still find myself searching for that elusive "One", and I guess online dating is as good a place as any other to find her. My interests are diverse, but include sports (more playing than watching), travel, and hanging out with my friends and family. Don't worry though, I also have interests that aren't the exact same as every other guy on OKCupid, and they include meditation, playing a little guitar and trying to make the world a bit better (really). I'm sarcastic, and my sense of humor is pretty dry, but I do love the hearty belly laugh which I have been known to do as well. I enjoy drinking craft beers and doing guy stuff, but do pride myself on having contrasts and enjoy performance art, I've been to Burning Man a few times, and am very open minded about different people and experiences. I can be a little goofy, but mostly in a charming way, and at the end of the day I am a good man (again, really).

Now what about you? My needs are simple really. I'm looking for someone who can convey with just a look that she got my dry joke, even if no one else did; someone who wants to sit next to me, even when it means leaving one side of the table empty; someone who sees the little things, finds them amusing, and shares them with me; someone I like referring to as “us” in conversations, and who smiles when I do; and someone whose laugh makes me forget what I was talking about. You don't have to be just like me, and in fact I often really like women that maintain a foothold slightly outside of the mainstream. It just makes things more interesting.

It shouldn't be too hard right? Someone once described "True Love" to me as your best friend whose clothes you want to tear off all the time. That sounds about right. I look forward to the journey....
What I’m doing with my life
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Working hard, but trying to figure out ways to work less but make more money (not easy); in the early stages of my personal spiritual journey; staying in shape; trying to have memorable experiences; and trying to find a good woman to share my life with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being true.
Doing the right thing.
Making fun of you.
Being active
The first things people usually notice about me
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The tattoo on my face. Actually I am just joking, usually that I am tall and have a deep voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Full Catastrophe Living by Jon Kabat-Zinn, The Power of Now, Buddhism without Beliefs.

Music - Old AC/DC, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Otis Redding, & Ben Harper

Movies - Documentaries, Dazed & Confused, Before Sunrise, Pulp Fiction, Independent Films
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm not sure I have a typical Friday, but grabbing beers and/or dinner with friends is a common one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I actually do watch The Bachelor/Bachelorette. Ugh, that is just painful to type.