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28 M Rotterdam, Netherlands

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Last Online
Today – 8:00am
6′ 2″ (1.87m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Okay), Other (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Love a laugh, really love it, like 'wow I genuinely do'. Easy going, fond of sympathy.
What I’m doing with my life
Studied photography, I would like to make journalistic reports in the future (film / photography). Or work in some editorial environment, or both. That sounds ideal.
Now figuring out what I really like to do, I might wanna go in another direction. Not really sure though, I only want to make a right decision (that is a bit naive, I have realised that. If I would make a switch, I just don't want to find out after a year that it was not a right one).
I’m really good at
Reasonable thinking and having a laugh. Anticipate and improvise. Forget to get out of public transportation at the right spot once in a while, drinking coffee, having a beard, gently make my way through a crowd, eating a late night lumpia.
Listen, respond and have a suggestion. Putting things in perspective. Watch sports and know what's happening.
The first things people usually notice about me
Never asked. I can be a little reserved, sometimes a person does that. If the company is good, it all loosens up and the laughter may start. Or the dancing, drinking, sit on a bench and watch the funny peeps or imitate a baked potato.
It could also be the hat that I'm wearing. That one's awesome.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Not really a book person, which is a shame. But I can read and actually do that now and then.

Definitely prefer movies with a story line, if not the amusement value should do it, if not it's shit, sometimes it's shit anyway. Too many movies to mention here.

Favourite shows of recent times: Brooklyn Nine Nine, Game of Thrones, Girls, Homeland, House of Cards, New Girl, Orphan Black, Person of Interest, Psych, Sherlock, Suits, True Detective, Under the Dome.

RnB, hiphop, jazz, soul, pop, electronic stuff to bounce on. And a bit of everything 80s, 90s, easy listening and so on. Love crappy music, because that is hilarious. Well not necessarily crap, just loveable, NSYNC, Braxton, the 'early' Carey, Houston you know them right.. (no idea why I listen to it, I just do, no good reason for it).
Definitely some jazzy funkalicious shizzle. And proper Dutch hiphop, like Fresku, Opgezwolle, Fakkelbrigade, Extince.
Listened a lot to Frank Ocean and Kendrick Lamar last year.

Like cooking, love to improvise in the kitchen.
The six things I could never do without
A winter cap, fluids, music, transportation, ability to taste and laughter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I actually find important, all the objectives I want to achieve and what I feel like doing. A combination of intuition and planning.

Besides that my mind has a stunning concentration of thinking about absolute bullshit, word jokes and imaginary situations.

I like to know what's happening in politics. We need to work together, in society and politics, and better it (mainly for those who are not so fortunate). I really find it disturbing that some political parties/politicians rather instigate, provoke and divide, than unite. And I am therefore astonished that people actually vote for them (without noticing the previous).
On a typical Friday night I am
Having a good time, drink a beer, have a laugh, don't mind a good conversation on serious subjects though. Could be a regular chill out, move my hips to the music, or catch up with downloadable series mentioned above. Or lock myself out of my house, did that on a typical Friday night not so long ago, maybe it was a Saturday...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes a lack of structure, but gets compensated by the shimmers of honesty and optimism.
(This metaphor is bloody awful. I really fucked that up, should have deleted it. No.. shouldn't have typed it ... no wait ... shouldn't have thought of it being a good idea. Getting there. What a progress.)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
No ifs. If ifs and buts were candy and nuts we'd all have a merry christmas.
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