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48 Danville, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 31–65
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So this is where I'm supposed to describe myself and my perfect match? Well, I filled all this thing out.. Including, 40 reasons why you should message me in the "Why you should message me" section below. With some thought, here goes: O.k. well, I am rather handsome (at least my mom thinks so), confident, and mostly funny. Pretty-darn-smart, share my thoughts but am very good at compromise, tender-hearted, and I believe in performing random acts of kindness as often as possible. I love the sound of the rain and smell of the air in spring, the smell of the ocean. I can make the best Pizza or lasagna that you've ever tasted and hold my own in the presence to everything from power tools to shopping. I am nothing if not passionate. I am tough as nails, but am moved at any and every Hallmark ad on TV and love to sing at the top of my lungs in the car (only when I'm alone so don't worry.) I am a true giver and love giving my heart to everything I set out to do. I do believe there are at least a few moral absolutes and I'm not afraid to say so. The phrase "Jack of all trades" was written about me, I love putting forth the effort in all that I do and that almost always is 90 percent of the ingredient for success. I am kind and sweet and compassionate. I laugh my way through most days and the nice thing is I really mean it. I am happy.

Together, well, we are probably not completely alike and may actually have many differences, but this adds newness to the relationship, yet we share many of the same values and goals. We are both, at our core, optimistic people. We are trusting but not naive and we know that sometimes life gets ugly but we also know that much of the key to life is in how you choose to look at it. We know that we have a great deal of control over our own lives so we live our lives with purpose, direction and fun. We like the finer things in life and live within our means to achieve all that we want. We are grateful for all that we have and all that we hold true. We live a healthy life and health is a high priority in our lives. (However, we are well acquainted with Ben and his friend Jerry and we enjoy having them over from time to time. In other words, we see nothing wrong with enjoying some really bad stuff every now and again.) We never forget to stop and smell the roses.

A few other items about me, I grew up in Virginia (very much a southern gentlemen.) Graduated high school early (age 15) and went off to college at the University of Virginia. Following that, I flew into harms way for the U.S. Navy (very challenging and rewarding to give of myself for the country.) Also, I've worked in technology for many years. I'm in Senior Management for a very large technology firm. Love spending time with my 3 older daughters, my oldest is in her mid twenties, time flies so fast. I also love everything I do from surfing to windsurfing, to travel, to looking out into a star lit night and dreaming of tomorrow.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Well, professionally, I am a Sr. Executive for a very large company in the Silicon Valley and enjoy leading teams around the world that develop new technologies that will hopefully make the world a better place. Personally, I'm a happy person that enjoys having fun with family, friends and enjoying what the world presents every day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Having fun and enjoying every day... There are so many things that I absolutely love to do and am good at, Some include:

Surfing (big wave surfing as well) ... Windsurfing ... Travel ...Eating Out ... Travel ... Hiking .. Biking ... Farmers Markets ... Movies ... swimming ... Beach .. anything water ... weekend getaways .. relaxing ... Kissing ... More kissing ... picnics (whicker baskets with you and I) ... The list goes on:)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and my eyes ...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Endless... I tend not to watch TV and do not keep up with shows. I do love movies and lean toward comedies, drama and romance. Love going to live shows and performances of all types. Eating out and experiencing new restaurants is always great, good food, wine and conversation is always fabulous. I do love relaxing and meandering through a farmers market on the weekend and the taking in a cafe or nice deli for lunch. Love the beach and anything water. As for books, with so much to do I sit down and read a book every now and again, but that seems to be less often.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hope for a better tomorrow
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make each day better...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No typical Friday's exist ...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I still text and drive from time to time... I'm getting better at it though, better at hiding my smartphone while driving as well...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Something sparks your interest... As well, 40 or so other benefits of dating and building a relationship with me :)

1. You’ll never have to worry about driving illegally in the carpool lane again
2. I always put the cap back on the toothpaste or close the flip top
3. I'll stash little sweet notes for you where you'll least expect them
4. I have good teeth
5. There isn't anything you can't tell me and I'll hold it in my heart.. It's ours only
6. You’re safe with me always .. Chivalry is alive and well
7. I'll lick the envelope for you if you wish
8. I’ll hold your coffee for you when you’re driving
9. I’ll make you Mickey Mouse pancakes
10. I won’t bite unless you want me to
11. Sleeping in will have a whole new meaning when we are doing it together
12. I'll cover you up and kiss your forehead when you fall asleep before me
13. I'll carve your initials in a tree when we picnic together
14. I'll pick you flowers whenever possible
15. I'll make you laugh
16. I do know how many licks it takes to get to the center of a tootsie roll tootsie pop
17. I'll take care of you always, rain or shine no matter what
18. I've got cookies
19. I take a shower every day, usually twice a day and smell good.
20. I'll let you beat me at pool
21. I don't eat crackers in bed
22. I'll always think it's hot to look in your eyes and see your smile
23. I don't care what music we listen to in the car .. Except Bluegrass
24. My heart will jump every time you walk through the door
25. I'll save everything you ever give me.. It will be special to me
26. I won't ever forget your birthday
27. I've never been on Americas Most Wanted
28. My kisses will take your breath away and make you smile
29. I never drive faster than 30 mph in a school zone
30. You'll sleep better when I'm next to you
31. I'll never waste your love
32. I'll laugh at every joke even when it's not funny (but only in public - when we're alone I'll tell you if it's not funny)
33. I'll help you find your keys
34. I don't litter
35. I'll look both ways before I cross the street with you .. Again, always keeping you safe
36. My Sunday morning breakfasts will change your life
37. I've never been on Jerry Springer
38. I buy a new toothbrush every time the blue wears down
39. I'm pretty darn funny
40. I know the difference between they're, their, and there

Lastly: After reading this far you've already got too much time invested all ready - might as well e-mail me :)