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59 San Diego, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 38–55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I love be around fun, positive people. I also appreciate any opportunity to learn something new or travel to interesting and unusual places. I love to read. People, cultures and nature fascinate me. I grew up in the midwest and am honest, considerate, kind, chivalrous, easy-going and down-to earth. I was raised to open door and pull out chairs for ladies and I know what side of the sidewalk to walk on in the company of a woman. I am also told that I am a rare breed of male who is happy to ask for directions.

I hope to meet someone to form a deep, lasting, loving partnership. A fun, passionate, intelligent open-minded and adventurous companion with whom to share life's joys, sorrows, highs, lows, laughter and tears. Someone who can bring a different perspective than mine and enrich the experiences of life with new levels of insight, understanding and enjoyment.

I own my own business in a creative field and love what I do. Even so, I feel that work is more rewarding when balanced with time off to have fun, laugh and enjoy life and the people with whom I share it. I enjoy the, movies, concerts and museums. I also love to travel. I've been to South America multiple times (I speak Spanish)for work and pleasure, have traveled the US, Canada and Mexico extensively and visited Europe and China. Other parts of Asia and
Australia are on my list. I love spending time outdoors or just taking it easy with fun people. I'm not the jersey-wearing,paint-your-face sports fan type. Football, baseball and basketball don't interest me much...but I do like watching hockey now and then. I love to sail, hike in the mountains and bicycle and it would be great if you do too. And it would be great if you also know how to relax and let go of everything and just be.

I answered a lot of the questions, but only a few about sex (you never know where that stuff can end up) so the personality conclusions about me in that area reflect that.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to increase the amount of harmony, tolerance, compassion and laughter in the world. I'm a filmmaker. Most of my projects explore the connections between people and nature.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'll leave that to you to decide
The first things people usually notice about me
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eyes, lips and smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read a lot of fiction and non-fiction including biographies.

Movies: classics like Citizen Kane, the Godfather, Dr. Strangelove, Cinema Paradiso, Il Postino, more recently Django Unchained, The Artist, Motorcycle Diaries, and many others... and lots of documentaries on Netflix.

Music... I like to listen to all kinds of music, except most country and rap. I gravitate to world music, jazz, classical and acoustic music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
With love, family, friends, books, nature, time and the right tools, life is great! (I know...that's 7 things...I could add more)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
It varies moment to moment
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have no typical Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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