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35 Auckland, New Zealand Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 1
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Seeing Someone
Strictly non-monogamous
Has kids, and might want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm older than I look but younger than I act unless I am in a silly mood.

I'm a massive geek, a fairly hard-line skeptic, and I apparently respond to intimidating text boxes with run-on sentences.

I'm one of nature's potterers; I paint miniatures and might finish enough to wargame one day, I attain competence but not excellence at odd things, and I enjoy reading but get distracted from novels by the internet a lot.

I am actively polyamorous (though I try to avoid using the term 'compersion' unless absolutely necessary - I'm quite pretentious enough :P)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enacting my first Five Year Plan. It's all very Soviet, but in a pop-culture "bears with machine guns" way, not a scary gulag-involving way.

More seriously, I'm taking some time to focus on family and self while gathering myself up for another pass at the wide world of tertiary study.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm an excellent GM, a good conversationalist, and average at video games but amusing to watch play them.

I'm a hypnotist, amateur dramatist, and decent cook.

Evidently I also got better at self-promotion since the last time I updated this,
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My voluntary baldness. If I happen to be talking about a subject that interests me, my wild gesticulation might also catch the eye.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like the old Star Wars but I am allergic to remastering.

I enjoy Star Trek on both the normal and ironic levels.

I remain fond of the films of my youth- Labyrinth, the Dark Crystal, the Princess Bride.

A fan of Firefly and by extension Serenity. Found Buffy fantastic but never really cottoned to the spinoff.

Musically my tastes are eclectic- right now I am really hung up on the work of Electric Six, and the Foo Fighters are a perennial favourite, as are 80's rock/pop musicals. Hunting of the Snark represent!

Food-wise I am a big meat fan, sorry to say. I appreciate vegetarianism and veganism on practical and philosophical levels but I couldn't do it myself.
Onions are evil, tomato is only good if thoroughly liquified- it's the Devil's fruit!

If I were to pick favourite 'cuisines' they'd be Thai, yakitori and Italian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The internet, my friends, urban environments (I would not flourish in the wilderness though it's more than okay to visit), hope, sex, and irony.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My hobbies, rationalism in general, imaginary arguments.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Running an RPG of some kind. What I get up to after that, though, varies quite a bit...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hard to say- the stuff I'm willing to admit tends to blur together.
You should message me if
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You like sarcasm, geekery, food and awful jokes.