I love to laugh and I'm often cracking jokes or making fun of myself. I love people that can do the same. What really gets me is how you treat others. If I meet a guy who is humble and treats people with respect... I'm floored! You can be confident, self-assured, successful, attractive yet humble, all at the same time. Humility is so sexy to me!
I have been fortunate enough to have traveled well and seen some beautiful places and that has helped me to become more open minded.
I'm not a high flyer or pretentious d-bag. I live a simple life full of little moments, nice people and lots of laughs. I have grown to value the small things that make a big difference and that makes me sleep well at night.
Being gay does not define my life. Take me sky diving, dancing, movies, or drinks... I can match you one to one! However I'm not a party animal and I'd pick a low key night over going to a bar any day.
I am looking to date a decent guy with the idea of building something more concrete and long lasting. I do not have a physical type but I do have a personality type I' attracted to. If you must know, I'm vers top.
I am of mixed background so I will be the last one to judge you based on your ethnicity.
Qualities I like in a guy:
~*~ A strong belief in Monogamy (ok I just scared away 75% of the guys reading this)
~*~ Good sense of humour and the ability to be able to laugh at yourself
~*~ Desire to succeed
~*~ Having goals in life
~*~ Family values
~*~ Drugs free
~*~ Ability to communicate (if you're blunt and speak your mind then you'll turn me on)
~*~ Have a job
What turns me off:
-- Aggression (I will run away before you can count to 3)
-- Overconfidence (the only hot sh*t is the one that comes out of your a**)
-- Overly dramatic/loud guys (I'm really not one for drama, sorry!)
-- Huge age difference (if you're old enough to be my father or young enough to be my son then we are not a match)
Ok so I think I've scared 99% of the guys away but that's fine I guess haha.
So if you've read this far and you seriously in your right frame of mind and all your sanity want to know me better... just send me a message.
Lets go out on a date or two with no expectations and let chemistry lead the way. Lets go with the flow whether it takes us to some fun times as friends or makes us want to see each other more than a few dates!
I usually respond to every single message unless its something offensive. So if I message you or you message me and either one is not interested lets be polite and say 'no thanks'. Doesn't take a lot of effort, does it?