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tmbradshaw

48 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 13
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Available
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
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Update June 23, 2013

I am now in a monogamous relationships, so I'm not looking for anyone, thanks!

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Update May 15, 2013

I have found a wonderful primary partner whom I see regularly, but am looking for one or two more FWBs, or folks to join me and me primary for fun adventures such as 3somes, groups or swinging.

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I woke up from a long sleep a couple years ago. I want to soak life in and I'm making up for lost time. I love being awake again and sharing myself with amazing people.

FYI, I don't think my OKCupid personality profile accurately reflects me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am seeking out new opportunities and friendships. I love my job and my situation. I like to learn all the time and am continuously improving myself and trying out new things. I was a school junkie and have two post-graduate degrees. I work out most days. I do regular yoga and meditation. I bike or walk to work and have never car-commuted.

Moved to SF recently from a much less interesting place and I am enjoying it far more than I ever expected, and I had high expectations!

I'm 6'1" and 170 lb and keep active, and I have a full head of hair (in case that makes a difference to you!)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Solving problems and puzzles, balancing my left and right brains, getting to know wonderful new people, exploring, parallel parking, offset press printing, typing, and more!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been told my eyes (blue).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have very diverse interests and have traveled a lot and read a lot and listened to a lot of music. I love cooking and food. In all cases there are no specific genres or favorites, I pretty much like them all!

It's hard to name things but I will list some that come to mind, some shamelessly cribbed from other peoples profiles. I will add more as I think of them. This is a pretty random sampling:

Movies/Shows
Miyazaki, About half of the Cohen Brothers movies (Fargo, Raising Arizona, The Big Lebowski, etc.) but not the other half, foreign movies with subtitles, Donnie Darko, Galaxy Quest, Contact, the original Matrix, Koyaanisqatsi, Pixar movies, Madagascar, Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs, Monsters, Inc., Lexx, Firefly, Battlestar Galactica (new series), Dr Who, Twin Peaks.

Music
Beatles, XTC and other British new wave/alt-pop, jazz (mainly New Orleans style and classic be-bop like Miles Davis and Thelonious Monk), all the Canadian Sara(h)s: McLachlan, Slean, etc., Blur, Kate Bush, Kristin Hersh/Throwing Muses/50 Foot Wave, Buddha Bar, Moby, Mary Margaret O'Hara, Suzanne Vega, Death Cab for Cutie, New Pornographers, The The, Björk, The Clash, Davie Bowie, Nine Inch Nails, Radiohead, Talking Heads, Blur, Flaming Lips, Bruce Cockburn, k.d. lang, u2, The Police, Vic Chessnut (RIP), Shawn Colvin, New Order, Múm, Melon, Ryuichi Sakamoto, David Bowie, Elton John, Sigúr Ros, The Lilac Time, Juliana Hatfield, Jesus and Mary Chain, The Breeders, Jane Siberry, Garbage, Gús Gús, Deep Forest, REM, Aimee Mann, The Clash, Simple Minds, etc. etc.

Food
Sushi! Italian, Thai, Japanese... I love all different kinds of food!

Books
The typical book club stuff, Laxness, Bulgakov, Gogol, Vonnegut, trashy science fiction... Lately I have been reading more non fiction on Buddhism and meditation. I was a voracious reader most of my life, but lately not so much. Probably will again.

Travel
I love travelling and really experiencing new places, as close to the local lifestyle as possible. I'm not interested in cruises, tours, or 5 star luxury resorts. I've been to various parts of Asia, Europe, and Australia/New Zealand.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sex, love, play, human touch, adventure, learning, music, food, the oxford comma, and adding extra items to lists like this.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be more open to the universe, how to open my heart to those around me, and somehow stay employed! How to balance my different values and needs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
fooling around with my gorgeous girlfriend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Pretty much anything but only when we're in person.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are looking to play with a gentle, compassionate, kind, smart, but real man. You are confident, positive, and constructive in your outlook. You want to create some great memories and have a great adventure. You take care of yourself and your body. You crave physical contact and that amazing afterglow. And you are open to making a new friend too...