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28 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 19–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:32am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Vietnamese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I not into putting someone down by calling them a "faggot". In the same vein, a unpleasant situation is not "gay". I am so tired of guys and girls throwing those words around nonchalant.
Really, it's not so much the word. It's that someone expresses their opposition to that idea. Someone feels hurt, so we should rethink why we are saying what we say.
I love thinking and I'll die thinking.
I'm not afraid to say I am wrong. It may take me some time to apologize, but I will say, "I am sorry". Maybe sometimes I say sorry too often. It doesn't mean my apology isn't genuine or invalid.
I am comfortable with myself for the most part. Often I am too critical of myself but I'm hard at working trying to calm those thoughts.
I am comfortable blurring the line of gender roles and redefining what "masculine" is.
I know I'm a big people pleaser. I'm always down to help someone.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After getting my BA in photography at SJSU, I went to Santa Cruz and now I'm in Oakland.
I'm trying to stay busy with art, bike riding, makin guitars, playing guitars and inner monologues.
My own critical voice is too damn loud. I need to hang with some mellow peeps so it's not so fucking loud.
Sometimes I lay around and I don't do anything.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I love fixing stuff. From guitars to amps to bikes to household items, I like being able to know that my hands are capable of making things better. It's such a puzzle.
I'm also good at being a pestimist.

I'm great at fucking up the English language.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My braid.
The color of my skin.
My height.
In that order usually.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love eating vegetarian/vegan, though I'm neither.
I love pasta without hesitation. I love food. Thai basil.
I am into reading graphic novels and playing dorky games. Watchmen, Y the Last Man, Wolverine, Magic the Gathering, etc.
I love horror movies and thriller movies. I really liked I Saw the Devil, Saw, Interview with the Vampire, Sixth Sense, The Haunting in Connecticut, Kill Bill, Pulp Fiction, Waterworld, Terminator 2, Robocop, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, My Girl, Homeward Bound, Up... Ok so the last few weren't horror movies.
I'm bad with authors but I really loved The Road by McCarthy, The Hunger Games, Confessions of an Economic Hitman, World War Z, Revolutionary Road, Atonement,
I love lots of music.
Punk blues jazz country
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fruit. Especially pineapple. And avacados.
Music. To dance. To listen.
A gas stove and a wok. Maybe throw in a cast iron pan.
Graphic novels.
A bike and or skateboard.
Attention. Me me me me me me. Look at me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ways to deny reality.
Things to put into list form.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either playing Magic: the Gathering, playing a show, going to a show or in bed watching movies with someone rad. Pizza and beer? Maybe a hit and comics.
You should message me if
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You care to be friends. Friendships rule.
I'd like someone to go to shows with. Share music with. Go on an odd adventure. Sit at home and watch a movie or just talk.
You want to show me some sweet secret cooking tips.
You want to get your hands dirty in a garden.