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41 F Chicago, IL

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Last Online
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5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Interested in hearing from people who live in Chicago only. I have met great people online who remain friends and know people who have married people they met online. Chemistry is best determined in person so I prefer not engaging in extensive emailing or text messaging before we meet.

Altogether I have lived in Chicago for nine years with a six year stint of living in New York City. Having grown up in the Midwest, I consider myself a Midwesterner with New York (East Coast?) sensibilities and big city person.

My personality is self-assured, sensitive, strong-willed, spunky, sexy and smart. I enjoy helping people and, as I grow older, consider compassion to be one of the most important human qualities. Down-to-earth and personable, I exude lots of energy and am very articulate and opinionated. I am not laid back unlike everyone else on this dating site. Generally I approach life with tremendous optimism, gratitude and a positive attitude. Fortunately, I have wonderful friends and family. Professionally, I enjoy working in a few businesses.

A true extrovert, I enjoy lively, intelligent and frivolous discussions, and also engage quite easily in intimate, one-on-one conversation. My personality is versatile. I can enjoy a night out on the town and am also comfortable staying in and watching a movie. I prefer being "dressed up" and am not really a "jeans and t-shirt person." For fun, I love trying different cuisines, art museums, travel (international and domestic), movies, reading, networking and being with friends. I probably am guilty of not taking advantage of everything our great city has to offer. I am very fit, working out regularly with spinning, yoga, weight lifting and circuit training.

Being career-oriented and driven, establishing a meaningful relationship is still a priority.Similar values and long term goals, chemistry/passion and open and honest communication are, in my opinion, the best predictors for relationship success. Ideally you are politically liberal and not religious, reasonably fit, ambitious and somewhat intellectual. Most importantly, you are reliable and have integrity.

While I don't follow sports (maybe until the end of the season) I can certainly appreciate most sporting events without complaint.

Good luck in your search.
What I’m doing with my life
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Legal and technology sales and have a real estate investing company. Working with a start-up dating service company.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
laughing, listening, talking, working out, public speaking, eating diverse cuisines, dressing up, discussing current events, living spontaneously while also having a decent amount of structure in life, being a good and loyal friend, helping people, networking, connecting people, planning events
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile and my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books--Read more magazines than books. Prefer non-fiction particularly in finance or business. Some favorite books include: Too Big to Fail, Liar's' Poker, Den of Thieves, Barbarians at the Gate. Regularly read the NY Times, Gawker, Fortune, Fast Company, Vanity Fair, Elle, Vogue and Self. I am very active in social media.

Television-- I don't own a television but like House of Cards, Bloomberg News, the Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon, the Charlie Rose show and all Law & Order series.

Movies--Trying to see the top 100 movies of all time. Truly love all types of movies particularly dramas, independent films and documentaries.

Music-- Pop, R & B, old school rap, dance music, love songs (because I am romantic). Basically anything fun and upbeat! I can sing very well, am musically inclined (played the piano growing up) and appreciate all kinds of music/musical performances, even stuff I would not listen to on my own. I am not a snob about music.

Food--One of life's greatest pleasures! Love trying new restaurants and eating all types of ethnic food. My favorite cuisine is probably French (bistro); my weakness is chocolate. I eat very healthy and am trying to cook at home more. Maybe I will cook dinner for you!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, companionship, close friends, family, enjoyable career, access to information
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
work, friends, loved ones, current events, places I want to visit, something I have read, interesting news articles, fitness, fashion, movies, healthy recipes
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
staying in and unwinding from the week, out with a friend/friends for dinner, happy hour or working out after work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a Type A personality.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 36–51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You like what you have read and want to know more.
You believe in chivalry.
You are fit.