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56 M Boulder, CO

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  • Ages 35–99
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My Details

Last Online
Sep 17
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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I am married and actually stumbled on this site quite by accident. I am not looking for a replacement for my wife, but I have always been curious if my perfect match existed somewhere out there. So, in the interest of science, I have answered many questions, hit the match button many times but there must be a bug in OKC's program someplace because OKC still hasn't found someone exactly like me. I never would have guessed that we are really all different. Maybe that is why it seems to be so hard for everyone to get along these days.

Physically I am tall, muscular, with classic good looks depending on which classics you like to look at. I like activities which make my heart pump like cycling or hiking and if another heart pumping activity immediately jumped to your mind, then bonus points for you because I love to swim too.

I am politically liberal, not particularly religious, musical, easy going, and would rather read a book than play a video game. I stand out in a crowd because I have no tattoos or piercings and while standing in crowds is sometimes fun (mostly because at 6'4" I can see over everybody), I often like being away from crowds too. I live a balanced life and just want to be happy and be with people who are easy to be with.

I know that OKC caters to singles looking for their one life partner, but I have one of those, but if there are others out there who are married or single and looking for friendship and connections I would love to hear from you.

I am tall, athletic, and musical
What I’m doing with my life
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Answering OKCupid questions. Some of these are hard and honestly, if I don't see the answer I want or if I can't decide on an answer, I move on. Maybe that tells you something about my personality. If I know the answer, I will tell you. If I don't, I guess I would prefer to not make something up.

I have been having fun answering the questions on the profile's of people who seem similar. I am getting to the point where fewer and fewer people show up with Low Enemy scores. I never knew I had that many enemies. Most people seem to like me. Perhaps I am surrounded by a bunch of hypocrites. :-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am really good at finding things I want to be good at.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height and build. I look like a basketball player, but at this point in my life I would rather be a piano player.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: All things Steinbeck and a host of others. I have a child in grade school so I read 15-20 Newbery Winners last year and enjoyed them as much as many of the classics.

Movies: I enjoy movies, but they aren't my life.

Food: I eat most anything but have an tendency to prefer vegetables over animals and minerals.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Does this question mean things that make me happiest?
1. Health - I am happiest when I feel good and healthy.
2. Love/Friendship - I am happiest when I feel connected to people.
3. Accomplishment - I am happiest when I help make something better than it was before.
4. Safety - I am happiest when I am employed and don't have to worry about money, murder or mayhem.

OK, those are the big ones. Little things that are currently making me happy are my bike and my piano. These could be replaced by something else at any time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I am not sure I spend a lot of time thinking about any one thing. But I do spend a lot of time thinking. I have that going for me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably doing something that most people would not find all that interesting. Life doesn't have to be visibly turbulent to be fun for me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
What do they mean by private: embarrassing, controversial, naughty?

Embarrassing: I voted for G.W. Bush over Gore in 2000. I am blushing as I type this.
Controversial: I am troubled by Creationists. How anyone can ignore mountains of facts and hold fast to positions that can not be defended concerns me.
Naughty: I am married and put a profile up on OKCupid. But don't assume the worst about me.
You should message me if
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You like to type and you don't need me to ask all the questions.