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toastalo

29 / M / straight / Single

Wichita, Kansas

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism and very serious about it
Sign
Libra but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am cheeky, cheery, and thoughtful.

My Self-Summary

I'm a friendly, thoughtful, carefree person that enjoys socializing, meeting new people and having good conversation. I've never had trouble meeting people before, but in Wichita it's pretty alienated...

What I’m doing with my life

Working a job to try and get the hell out of Kansas and start a career elsewhere. I've graduated into a crappy economy, but I'm optimistic and working my tits off to try and establish some kind of career that will engage creativity. Just finished work on a documentary and hoping to get more work.

I’m really good at

Running! Just ran a marathon.

Waffling on about anything and everything (esp. history and the arts). I challenge you to bore me.

Drinking and socializing - not really skills, but I'm pretty good at cutting loose when I need to :)

The first things people usually notice about me

I don't sound like I'm from around these parts. I have a hybrid accent that I intend to get patented.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books:
The Demon Haunted World, Don Quixote, On Liberty, old school romance novels (Dumas, Sabatini etc). HP Lovecraft, MR James, Algernon Blackwood, George R.R. Martin, Lord Dunsany, Patrick O'Brian, Klaus Kinski's insane autobiography.
Movies:
TCM baby!, foreign movies, artsy movies. Babette's Feast, Notorious, Roman Holiday, The Third Man, Cries and Whispers, The Last Detail, The Passion of Joan of Arc, The Magnificent Ambersons, Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?, Closer, Manon of the Spring, A Clockwork Orange, Naked, Star Wars and Jaws (obviously).
Music:
Manic Street Preachers, My Bloody Valentine, Portishead, The Rolling Stones, The Jesus and Mary Chain, The Horrors, Nico Vega, Los Campesinos!, Echo and the Bunnymen, Joy Division, T-Rex, The Strokes, Bowie, Ramsey Lewis Trio, Bob Dylan, Beatles, Johnny Cash. (Generally anything other than Three Doors Down, Nickelback, Puddle of Mudd or Green Day suits me quite well).
Food:
If there's curry on the menu I'm having it. Love Indian, Thai, Italian. Wine, though not a food (!), is always good too. I'm always up for trying new and interesting foods; when you live on the west side of Wichita you're kinda of out of luck unless you want a heart attack for dinner.

The six things I could never do without

1- Laughing... a lot.
2- Good conversation with good company over some form of drink.
3- Running
4- Rocking out in my boxers.
5- A notepad.
6- Oxygen. Ha. Ha. Ha.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Probably the same things you do: the future, art, politics, why Wichita can't fix it's feckin' roads.

On a typical Friday night I am

Anywhere but in front of my computer. Like to be out of the house if possible. Doesn't have to be a bar, but...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I thought the Quiet Game was a real game...

until I was 21.

You should message me if

(None of these have to include or exclude each other)
-You can dispense with small talk pretty quickly.
-You have an accommodating sense of humor.
-You are looking to chat about interesting stuff.
-You have an open mind.
-You're bored and fancy waffling to a stranger about something that might be bugging you.
-If you want to.