tobelander
32 Los Angeles, CA
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My self-summary
"A tramp, a gentleman, a poet, a dreamer, a lonely fellow, always hopeful of romance and adventure."
What I’m doing with my life
I make things including but not limited to: stories, movies, coffee, mistakes...
I’m really good at
Brevity.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm laughing much too loud.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music:
I will listen to nearly anything. I prefer it live if I can. Give me someone with a guitar (or a piano) singing about something personal and I'm hooked.

Books:
Fahrenheit 451, Danny the Champion of the World, Mossflower, Watership Down, Siddhartha, Jimmy Corrigan, On The Road, Wolf Hall...

Movies:
This would be an insanely long list. We'll just leave it at that I've seen "Swingers" probably 30 times or more. I've lost count.

Food:
Ramen, sushi, Japanese, lime fruit pops, cinnamon swirl bread is so so awesome, salmon, pork chops with green beans, scrambled eggs with kale and other veggies, almond croissants, taco trucks, street food from around the world. Pretty much any and all Trader Joe's food.
The six things I could never do without
A word processor. Movies. Music. Good Food. My Friends. Other creative people to inspire me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What is the real identity of Benjamin Kyle? Seriously, that shit is wild.
On a typical Friday night I am
Writing, going to a movie, staying in and watching a movie, going to a concert, reading, surfing the web, playing my guitar, getting drinks with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to dye my beard.
You should message me if
Let's be real. 90% of the time, I've sent you a message and I managed to stick out as one of the few non-creeps.
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