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tobelander

31 Los Angeles, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 29
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Status
Single
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"A tramp, a gentleman, a poet, a dreamer, a lonely fellow, always hopeful of romance and adventure." Major points if you can name who said that.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I make things including but not limited to: stories, movies, coffee, mistakes...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Brevity.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm laughing much too loud.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music:
I will listen to nearly anything. I prefer it live if I can. Give me someone with a guitar (or a piano) singing about something personal and I'm hooked.

Books:
Fahrenheit 451, Danny the Champion of the World, Mossflower, Watership Down, Siddhartha, Jimmy Corrigan, On The Road, Wolf Hall...

Movies:
This would be an insanely long list. We'll just leave it at that I've seen "Swingers" probably 30 times or more. I've lost count.

Food:
Ramen, sushi, Japanese, lime fruit pops, Cinnamon swirl bread is so so awesome, salmon, pork chops with green beans, scrambled eggs with kale and other veggies, Almond croissants, taco trucks, street food from around the world. Pretty much any and all Trader Joe's food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A word processor. Movies. Music. Good Food. My Friends. Other creative people to inspire me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What is the real identity of Benjamin Kyle?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Writing, going to a movie, staying in and watching a movie, going to a concert, reading, surfing the web, playing my guitar, getting drinks with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I used to dye my beard.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Let's be real. 90% of the time, I've sent you a message and I managed to stick out as one of the few non-creeps.